I need help.I have being dating a girl for 8 years.she have cheated 7times including when we were engaded.her problem is that anyone can talk her over.I have paid her not to work because she couldn't handle the stress of working.for the past year she was living with me.every month she went to visit her mother for a week because she miss her family,2weeks ago she came back and after 4 days told me she is going back to visit because she needed to think,but promised to come back.she didn't,she is looking for a job and I don't know if she is dating someone.every time she cheated she came back after a while,I live on a farm and she says its to lonely,will she come back this time,what must I do because its very hard for me

OK, this question is very simple to answer. If she does come back, don't take her back. Here's why, if she cheated 6 times already, she'll do it again. Face up to the fact that she doesn't care for you or your emotions, or your well-being. You will be much happier, and you'll be free to find someone who will show concern for your happiness. Life is too short to be put in a tug of war like this. Best wishes...

P.S. She couldn't handle the stress of working? Sounds like you're being used, and she knows you love her enough to take her back.
Don't let her disrespect you this way.

What is your problem? Do you have no pride at all? You need to stop worrying about if she's coming back and start worrying about getting yourself some self esteem. You are the fool and you're not fooling me. You didn't pay her not to work because it was too stressful for her,you paid her not to work because you thought if she couldn't be around anyone she couldn't cheat. You deserve no sympathy for being so stupid! Man seriously, get a life already!

Hello.

I know farm life is hard and its not easy to find a lady that wants to work the land and all the other chores you have to keep the farm running 7 days a week, but they are out there and I'm sure you can find one. Why keep paying a Lady to stay with you and that's what your doing, find a Lady that Loves you and wants to be there with you.

Good Luck
Dennis777

You should be happy she didn't come back and if she does, get rid of her. Not smart at all to pay some one to live with you that is not your employee, and works on your farm. If she has cheated 7 times, THAT YOU KNOW OF, she will certainly do it again. Save your money and get a real woman who wants to happily share your life, and be loyal and trustworthy.

You've got a woman here with some serious issues and obviously not marriage material. Why would you want to be with someone like this? You have to make your own decisions but I'd dump this one like a hot potato, turn it into a learning experience and move on.

She has some issues??

You're the one with the serious issues!! Cheated on you!!

Your paying her she's not your girlfriend, no wondershes cheating yourvegot orself a live in hooker!!
If she's cheating she is not considered a girlfriend...

O wow be glad its over! What a filthy rat, let her live in the sewers - as chuff says! Maybe you could send her to live in the barn to live in the horse sh_t

You just need to stop letting her walk all over you, its going to be hard, but you just have to cut her out off your life.