Ive been going out with my boyfriend now for 8months, but I've known him for 4years,an I always had a BIG crush on him. Now that we are together, I'm so madly in love with him, I can't eat when he's not with me and I can't sleep with out him beside me. He feels exactly the same about me, because he tells me all the time. We both believe we are soul mates, and that we were meant for each other, but people say that there isn't such thing as soul mates. Is it true? Because I'm kind of confused! Do you think he's the man for me, from what I've told you? Xxxx

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If you love each other that's all that matters, you shouldn't let people decide whether there are soul mates. And even if you're not soulmates you shouldn't venture out to look for some one else when you have your lover staring you right in the eye. You need to follow what you want and be with him if you just need and love him. You're never going to feel this way again with someone else if you feel for him now like this. So forget what people say and love who you love. Screw the soulmate stuff, because you guys are meant for each other w/o the title.

Is this the same guy you've been having unprotected sex with? Be smart and protect you both from a life changing event, so you can explore whether this will last, without the pressure of a baby before your ready.

If you are asking he most likely is not the one. It is a feeling deep down in your heart that knows he is the one

Thanks for all your replys. I know he's the one. Xxx

Seems a bit obsessive and unhealthy if you ask me! Make sure you have a life without him. I don't personally believe in soul mates. The amount of people in this world who you can learn to grow and love with is massive to the say the least, to have only one person? You obviously are really into each other and that's great but don't get so involved that you make him your total life... Get some hobbies and things you enjoy doing without him.

There is a thing called soul mate, and I think he likes you too;) Guys that tell you about everything ans be there for you, def. want a further relationship.

You two have been through a lot together,
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Its not unusual for young people to be so in love, but will it last?? Time will tell, so use protection. Just in case he isn't the one.

Sure... but who care what we think. You are the ones that are together so if you believe he is the ONE, and he believe you are the ONE. Then you TWO ARE THE ONES FOR EACH OTHER!:cool:

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Listening is very important in a relationship. Does he listen when you have a tough day at work? Does she listen when you have a financial problem? This is one of the most important qualities people should have when they are working towards a future. If you find that listening has not been a strong quality in your relationship, then it might be a good time to ask for what you need and talk about it.
Talking about your partner makes you glow. This is a sure sign this person is someone who makes you happy inside out. If just the sound of their name makes you smile you have got something good going!
Good luck, girl!:)

How old are you?

Hi there... You did not mention how old are both of you?? If he is your first love or not? No matter what is going to be your answer... I believe that you are the best one who could tell if he is the right man for you or not... The right man has different definition from woman to another... write a note of what you are expecting from Mr. Right and compare if these things are in your boyfriend or not... also check if you can tolerate the things which you do not like in him or not because nobody is perfect and do not expect that he will change of himself for you even if he promised... if the answer was YES to all above question then he is the one for you...

GOOD LUCK.

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If you are right for each other you just know, you know yourselves, it doesnt even need to be said sometimes. Just enjoy what you have together.