Lave
Jun 20, 2007, 12:21 AM
I guess I am in love with my boss. I was always attracted towards him but now I guess that this attraction has developed into love. I don't know whether he feels the same for me, well he has never acted as if he loves me... help
Clough
Jun 20, 2007, 02:00 AM
Please watch it as far as a workplace relationship is concerned. It could really turn against you big time. You could lose your job in the end.
My opinion is, that you only have a crush on your boss. This is because you keep using the word "guess."
You say that he has never acted as though he loves you. Well, that is the telling point right there. It is wishful thinking on your part. You may think that you are in love with him, but if he does not return your love by any actions or words - then why are you even trying with him?
Even people who are married can be very attracted to someone else both physically and mentally. It does not mean that they would ever act on their attraction to the other person, especially if it is in their workplace.
If you truly value your job, then I would suggest looking for a relationship somewhere else.
Perhaps others will come along and also shed some light on the question that you have posed.