View Full Version : Getting someone to see where you are coming from
woodworkerjosh
Jun 17, 2007, 06:40 PM
What do you do when she says she isn't looking for anything right now?
rockstar567
Jun 17, 2007, 07:04 PM
Just be patient
huno
Jun 17, 2007, 10:24 PM
what do you do when she says she isn't looking for anything right now?
Usually when you get that response it means she's not interested. Otherwise, she'd take a chance with you.
That doesn't mean you should give up; they say persistence is a good thing. But you can bet that, for the moment, she's not really into you right now.
margarita_momma
Jun 19, 2007, 06:40 AM
I believe it means she is not wanting to get into a relationship at the moment. I just came out of a divorce and I have had to tell a guy this that I was dating because he was moving to fast for me. If you are really into her, don't push it and have patience. She will come to you when she is ready.
Dennis777
Jun 19, 2007, 07:09 AM
Hello.
That normally means your pushing to hard and fast so back off and let time guid you.
Tuscany
Jun 19, 2007, 07:10 AM
It means give her a chance to figure her life out. She needs you to step back and let her be for awhile. Be a friend, but don't push for more or you might push her away for good.
kristynn
Jun 19, 2007, 08:07 AM
It means she isn't looking for anything right now. She's not interested, but don't take it personally although there's always a chance that might be a 'nice' way for her to tell you she's not interested in you.
Good things happen to those who wait. Be patient and maybe she'll change her mind.
Lotz_of_Questions
Jun 19, 2007, 11:37 AM
I means she's not interested right now, but could be in the future so keep trying but don't seem to desperate!!
Good Luck!
DrJ
Jun 19, 2007, 11:42 AM
No, no, no... a woman is always looking for someone... it just has to be the right someone.
That's not to say that you are not that someone... but she just may not know it yet. Always focus on bettering yourself. Don't smother her or bother her if she doesn't want to be bothered. And do NOT become her friend. Go live your life and she may see what she is missing.