I'm 16 and I feel as though I'm ready for a long time relationship but it seems the more I look the more I attract the s! And all my friends said as soon as I stop looking he will find me! But I'm finding it hard! Please help me with advice xx

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im 16 and i feel as though im ready for a long time relationship but it seems the more i look the more i attract the s!! and all my friends said as soon as i stop lookin he will find me!! but im finding it hard!! please help me with advice xx
XXxFlowxXx I think you should just wait for the guy you have time.I think right now you should just think about you future like what do you want to be when you grow up and um... uh... be what you want to be when you grow up and everything else will fall in to place.

Don't be in such a hurry. Be patient. Bre1028 is right, you have a lots of time to find yourself in a long term relationship. First you need to make sure that you are the person that you want to be. You also must realize that being in a relationship isn't what will make you into this person. I don't mean to sound condescending because I'm older than you, that isn't what its about. Quite frankly I know a lot of people that are my age that have the same problem. They find themselves in need of self-security and look for it in another person, except that the only person that can complete you is you. (and if you're willing to hear it, Jesus.) Learn to love yourself for who you are as a person before you start looking to commit to someone, looking for some form of personal center for yourself. Once you are the person you want to be, the person who falls in love with you will be in love with the you that you like being, and at this point if this guy is just as emotionally mature, then you will be in the relationship you really want to be looking for.

Ne Te Quaesiveris Extra- Do not seek outside yourself