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steffy_bear
Jun 17, 2007, 12:34 PM
Okay so my cousin was dating this guy. My because and I are really close and so we talked about it. How cute he was, how there dating was going, blah blah blah. But I talked to him as well so it was one big friendship triangle. Well one day my because broke up with him and him and I started talking more and more and more. We finally knew each other for awhile and decided to meet up at the mall one day. We talked forever and we both had the same interests. Later that night we talked again and we got even more into it. After the next couple of days he finally asked me out. But there was a big age difference according to everyone. So I had to get my mom's consent and she debated and finally decided that she trusted him enough (she knows him too) that he would do anything and she said yes. So him and I were all excited and then we went to bed. The next day he called me to my joy and he wanted to go out that night. So I said what the heck and went. This was the day before mothers day. We went out had a great time (the best time of my life.) I met his parents and things he came back to my house and talked for a bit with my mom and older sister. But that night late into it he had messaged me on myspace saying that we couldn't date anymore. So t was cool but kind of heartbreaking. But we still talked. Further down the line we talked at nights and things and his parents said we couldn't talk. So we waited a bit and started up again. We talked about out 2 year plan of him moving out and him getting with me and our year plan of him getting married to me, which we both agreed to. But then one night we were on the phone and he was suppose to call me later but then messaged me again on myspace saying he couldn't talk to me anymore and had blocked me. Him and I haven't talked since then. What should I do. O matter what I do I still can't stop thinking about him... PLEASE HELP ME!!
rockstar567
Jun 17, 2007, 12:39 PM
Okay so my cousin was dating this guy. My because and I are really close and so we talked about it. How cute he was, how there dating was going, blah blah blah. But I talked to him as well so it was one big friendship triangle. Well one day my because broke up with him and him and I started talking more and more and more. We finally knew each other for awhile and decided to meet up at the mall one day. We talked forever and we both had the same interests. Later that night we talked again and we got even more into it. After the next couple of days he finally asked me out. But there was a big age difference according to everyone. So I had to get my mom's consent and she debated and finally decided that she trusted him enough (she knows him too) that he would do anything and she said yes. So him and I were all excited and then we went to bed. The next day he called me to my joy and he wanted to go out that night. So I said what the heck and went. This was the day before mothers day. We went out had a great time (the best time of my life.) I met his parents and things he came back to my house and talked for a bit with my mom and older sister. But that night late into it he had messaged me on myspace saying that we couldn't date anymore. So t was cool but kind of heartbreaking. But we still talked. Further down the line we talked at nights and things and his parents said we couldn't talk. So we waited a bit and started up again. We talked about out 2 year plan of him moving out and him getting with me and our year plan of him getting married to me, which we both agreed to. But then one night we were on the phone and he was suppose to call me later but then messaged me again on myspace saying he couldn't talk to me anymore and had blocked me. Him and I haven't talked since then. What should I do. o matter what I do I still can't stop thinking about him... PLEASE HELP ME!!!
just think about other things that make you happy. theres a saying " boys come & go but friends stya forever" so soon you may find a guy & find out that he was better then ur x. just remember think positive. dont think about him
steffy_bear
Jun 17, 2007, 12:40 PM
just think about other things that make you happy. theres a saying " boys come & go but friends stya forever" so soon you may find a guy & find out that he was better then ur x. just remember think positive. dont think about him
Thanks. I will try that.
rockstar567
Jun 17, 2007, 12:44 PM
Your welcome. Just think positive
steffy_bear
Jun 17, 2007, 01:16 PM
His parents don't want us to be together because it is a 4 year age difference. I can understand that we are young but there are tons of people married that are the same age difference. I do truly love him. How do I try to fix it. I won't be able to see him for most of this Summer because he is working at a camp and I have cheerleading.
Thanks Much
rockstar567
Jun 17, 2007, 01:22 PM
i am 13 & dating a 16 year old..& its hard because ym mom is not letting me keep in contact with him...but i am sneaking out with him.......cuz i love him...& we love eachother....
& i call him..
i think u should call him & talk 2 him about it
steffy_bear
Jun 17, 2007, 01:25 PM
I have talked to him about it but I haven't talked to him since. Him and I tell or did tell each other everything. I love him so much but since he can't talk to me I don't know what to do. It is all so hard!!
rockstar567
Jun 17, 2007, 01:32 PM
just think positive. look for other guys to hang out with...A& if he calls you one time & says he wants to talk then talk & tell him how you feel
steffy_bear
Jun 17, 2007, 01:37 PM
Okay I will do that, thanks.
rockstar567
Jun 17, 2007, 01:39 PM
your welcome. try your hardest to forget about him unless he wants to have you back & u feel in your heart you love himmmm