So they say that if you sleep with a guy on the first date he will not come back is this fact or fiction ?:rolleyes:

Fiction, he will be back for more sex, if he can't find it any where else.

so they say that if you sleep with a guy on the first date he will not come back is this fact or fiction ?:rolleyes:
fiction

fiction lol every guy is differant

If you sleep with a guy on the first date... he will come back most likely, for more sex, if nothing else, because he found a soft bed. Now some guys will not come back - they had the challenge of getting you in bed and won and therefore, what is left? The thinking on that is that since you were easy to land in bed with them the first time, how easy is it for any other guy? I had two brothers and this is how they and their friends thought, also some of the men I used to work with would talk like that. Take it for what it is worth, maybe two cents.

Now there are guy who will not think anything worse of you for having sex on the first date. After all, they had sex on the first date too. It would not be an issue for them. For them, there is no double standard.

So everyone is right, all guys are not made the same.

I think you might want to tell the person you are with on a first date (male or female) that if this turns into something special, you don't want to always remember that we had sex on the first date. Might be hard to hold off , but might pay dividends down the line. You might get to know each other better, which is always good, and never underestimate antici... pation, which could possibly enhance the experience on the second, third, or whatever date.

Or you could just tell the guy, sorry buddy but no sex on a first date that's the rules. Then if he comes back it means he is interested in you, if he desnt then you know what he was after.

so they say that if you sleep with a guy on the first date he will not come back is this fact or fiction ?:rolleyes:

Fact or fiction, it's not what should matter the most... That's just a HUGE mistake to start.

so they say that if you sleep with a guy on the first date he will not come back is this fact or fiction ?:rolleyes:

Fiction, every guy is different.
He might come back for more or he might come back cause he really LIKED it!

I do not think sex on a first date is a good idea ! This just make's it look like an easy lay and you could end up getting yourself played very easy this way.

I guess another way too look at it is, if the person you are dating is having sex with you on there first date, how many other date's have they been on doing the same thing? Then would you want to sleep with them so quick?

Exactly, new rule - no sex on first date, simple as that :)

Wouldn't it be great if people were just like some machine? You just enter a certain code and you will get the same result every time with every machine...

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