All right, well, I am Paul, I am 17 and have being going out with my girlfriend for the past 5 months, about 2 weeks ago, after kissing her, I suddenly felt sick, I thought it was just a bug, but it only ever happened when I was with her. Then, maybe a week ago, I was starting to reflect upon how unattractive I thought she looked now, I thought she was quite pretty when I started going out with her, but now she's lost all the shine, I am thinking about leaving her, but she tells me that she loves, but I'm sure she's told loads of boys that!

Any advice on what to do would be great.

P.S, I have been avoiding her for a week now because of the problem of me not finding her remotely attractive anymore.

Just be honest with her in the nicest way possible. Just explain to her that she isn't the right match for you. Don't tell her that her kiss made you sick, there's no reason to hurt someone's feelings. If she is mature, she'll understand.

Stop being a coward, and let this girl go gently.

It means you are judging girlfriends by "looks" not by being friends and getting alont with them and buidling a relastionship. But heck you are 17 and have pleanty of time of shallow looks related dating.

Get away as soon as possible.

You're being very shallow and you don't deserve her.

Grow up a little bit..

In my opinion, the fact that you aren't attracted to someone anymore isn't exactly being shallow. Everyone has their own personal preference and looks matter to some people. Why should he stay with her if he's not attracted to her?

Why should he stay with her if he's not attracted to her?
He shouldn't stay with her, but he needs to be honest and tell her its over and not run and hide from her like a coward.

He shouldn't stay with her, but he needs to be honest and tell her its over and not run and hide from her like a coward.

I'm not running and hiding, I just haven't been able to see her for a week.

I also care about more than just looks, like her personality, sense of humor and everything, but it just seems we have nothing in common.

I'm not running and hiding, I just haven't been able to see her for a week.


P.S, I have been avoiding her for a week now because of the problem of me not finding her remotely attractive anymore.

'K...

Well, girls complain often that guys suddenly stop calling them. Hell, I've done that. But it's no fun for the girl. Just tell her you want to see other people or that you just want to be friends and get it overwith. She's probably figured it out by now but it would be nicer to her if you just gave her some closure.

I'm not running and hiding, I just haven't been able to see her for a week.

I also care about more than just looks, like her personality, sense of humor and everything, but it just seems we have nothing in common.

You sure have backpedaled on your first post. What reason you do not want to see this girl anymore, she deserves to know, so she can get on with her life. Be honest, that is the least you can do.

Break up lil' homie... you're being shallow