Hello all,
I have going out with my boyfriend for 3years and 7 months, now everything was fine till I started talking about commitment, I felt that he got cold feet, I would ask him of why he is not willing to do anything for me, am always his last concern, anytime I try to ask him to do something special and romantic he tells me that he is tired from work and he needs time for himself, we used to go out one a week because f his job, he would never try or ask to see me even if he had a week off. I started t feel that he doesn't love me anymore, I kept asking him why and he would tell me that he does love me but its just the frustration of work. I got tired of asking him him and getting no answers.
So I sent him a message saying that I don't think that he loves me anymore and he is not willing to do anything to show me that he cares, and that I have tried everything to make it work and I wished him happiness. I had no reaction for 17 days nothing all the 3 years meant nothing to him so I called him. When I did he started shouting at me that after the 3 years all what he got was a message that is all what he cared about I told him that I have handled it wrong but he drove me to that. He shouted at me and said that he understands and he forgives me but I should never ever dream of hi taking me back.
He blamed me of doing bad at his work, going back to drinking and so on. I don't know what to do to get him back. Was what he did out of pride I don't know..
Please help me out.

Nouna:

Well, this is not what you want to hear, but you are well rid of that loser! Why do you want someone back who treats you like that? Do you think he is going to change? Well, trust me, he isn't. And if he is blaming his actions, like poor work performance, or excessive drinking on you, it is only a matter of time before he hits you. NO ONE deserves to be treated like this! RUN the other way, count your blessings and look for a guy who deserves your love and devotion!

Tink2U