View Full Version : I don't have any idea on what I should do =(
italiangirlie89
Jun 16, 2007, 09:09 AM
So I like this guy and he liked me up until one of my friends went behind my back and opened their mouth and made me look obsessive. I didn't even want her to say anything because I can talk for myself. And now that everyone knows, more and more people keep pressuring him and asking him if he likes me which is a total turn-off. So I talked to him and he said it was just annoying, and he thought I was madd at him for a while, and I figured everything was OK again up until more people started to talk to him "for me". So I don't know what to do about this whole mess, because there are 3 days left of school, and I don't want things to be awquard between us.:confused:
Bubbler
Jun 16, 2007, 02:45 PM
I think you need to tell the people that are going behind your back and talking to this guy for you too STOP ! You should just be honest and tell the guy the way you feel.. .
italiangirlie89
Jun 16, 2007, 06:21 PM
He keeps telling people he doesn't like me anymore because they all made me look obssesive and I'm starting to think it is true. But I don't know if I should try and change it, or continue to like him and make things better
italiangirlie89
Jun 22, 2007, 07:53 PM
I like this guy. He liked me, up until a friend of mine opened her mouth and made me look obsessive, and I didn't even want her to say anything, but that's besides the point =P. He still flirts with me, even though he claims not to like me, and there is something about the way he looks at me, that he still does. Would it come off to strong if I just grabbed him and gave him a kiss? And if not, how do i go about it?
Wondergirl
Jun 22, 2007, 08:02 PM
Now you want to be impulsive??
italiangirlie89
Jun 22, 2007, 08:10 PM
No, but yes. Maybe I just need to be spontaneous and quit analyzing everything to make it work and just see what happens. I think that possibly it would be a good thing if I do. There is always a 50/50 chance, but I don't know how to go about it. I mean I have self respect and I wouldn't rele do something like that because its not me, but this is my first time ever even thinking about doing something out of the norm like that, but I don't know what the repercussions might be. =\
Wondergirl
Jun 22, 2007, 08:14 PM
Then do it without comment. Be mysterious?
UnwantedHero
Jun 22, 2007, 08:16 PM
Here's some advice from a guy:from the sounds of it he most probably like it and want to kiss you back... one of my exs and I started of just as very flirty friends then one day she grapped me and kissed me I had no idea she felt that way about me and soon after we dated then went into a relationship for 2 years lol... point is there's only one way to know for sure if he kisses you back then your in,if not then I'm sure you can still be good friends.Good chance he doesn't think that your obsessvive but maybe he's playing with the idea that you guys might be more then friends.