I think in love, people should not play a push and pull game to others. Comparing with being in a game situation, I prefer a silent leave when one of the relationship has such thought.
I once wanted to test my friend, and I got advices from kind-hearted persons that I should never ever test. And I changed. Now I know things under test are vanity, game attitude, and hypocrisy,
It might be an absurd thing that after one has had so many dreams and anticipations in which pains and happiness twined together, she suddenly feels all is fake.

When in love, no you shouldn't play games. If you are you should not be in a relationship, however in reality its not always that simple.

I think honest communications are much more productive, games are for kids.