My friend is dating this guy I like. Their off and on dating would if they broke up for good should I go head and ask or wait.





lovequestioner

Never, never date a friends love interest. You will lose a friend even if she was done with him.

But he is hot

You sound like a turkey vulture circling the prey, waiting for the carcass to start rotting.

It is a bad, very bad, idea for you to zone into your friend's boyfriend - even if they break up. It violates a code of honor and respect between friends. If that were not enough to convince you to look elsewhere - IF they broke up, who is to say he would even go with you? IF he would go with you, and you and he were out, you still have your friend. Pretty uncomfortable. Let's say, for the sake of argument, you do get together with this guy and you and are hanging out with your friend and bingo! Your new boyfriend gets back together with your good friend. Can you see the blood in your eyes now?

Forget the fantasy about this guy and go and find someone UNATTACHED.

He is off limits and I can't believe he is the only available hot guy you know. Get your own hottie, and leave hers alone.

Bite Me I Hate You Dumb
Person

You call me dumb, but you're the dummy asking questions about hot guys that belong to your friends.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=1389975
Should we take avote on who's the dumb person??
You have my vote.
TROLL at work.

Here in the good old UK it's an unwritten rule that you NEVER date your friends blokes even when they are ex's, EVER.

I do not care about the UK I'm in usa OK

Hmm you're 11 right?

Why oh why would you want a boy at this stage in your life. I was once 11 and to be honest at that age I didn't care about girls, I was more interested in Action men and turtles (those where the days)

Point being, don't go after your mates boy because frankly at 11 it wouldn't be worth it, I doubt you will find love, at the most you might have some "fun" which you may regret later in life so I would just leave it for now and enjoy what's left of your innocent childhood

Young people amaze me sometimes.

This is not a history question but I'm saying sorry to what I've said to people out there I'm sorry and can you forgive.

Of course people will be forgiving on this site. Thank you for your apology. If you want your message to be seen by those to whom you are apologizing, then you might want to post it as an answer on the link below. I think that what is on that link is that to which you are referring.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/relationship-96016-2.html

this is not a history question but im saying sorry to what ive said to people out there im sorry and can you forgive.

Of course, it takes a real person to say sorry and even a better person for somebody to forgive. Good for you for taking that step.

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Here in the good old UK it's an unwritten rule that you NEVER date your friends blokes even when they are ex's, EVER.

Its an unwritten rule in the U.S. also... never date a friends ex