sess84
May 20, 2007, 01:14 PM
Hello
Im from India. I and my boyfriend are in relationship for the past 3 years. I love him a lot. I can't live without him. I wanted to marry him this year and start family. But due to our custom in the community he wanted me to go to UK for education with him and later marry. I had so much problem to persuade my parents to send me abroad as they were worried about my security. I finally got the permission. I was a playful girl in school. He was my senior in schoo and he knows me as a schoolmate. We never talked in schoo. Then I joined the college where he was studying. And there too we didn't talk. For the past 3 years we were out of our hometown and studying. We got introduced, became friends and later lovers. I was having so many boyfriends in school. He knows everything. But he proposed me and didn't care about my earlier relationships. But I feel he never trust me. I know he is afraid that I will leave him. I will never do that. After my schoo I never talked with other boys unnecessarily. During my postgraduation I never talked with my class boys except one as he was my project mate. But he doesn't know my phone number. He is a decent guy and he has his own personal life. On my birthday last week he sent a message on my mobile wishing happy b'day.I replied thanks. As I am very true to my boyfriend I told him. He got angry and called that boy and scolded him using bad language. That boy scolded my boyfriend too. Then my boyfriend got angry over me and said we'll breakup. I said OK but he should marry me after 3 years. He said OK and the next morning he called me. He said sorry and also said he can't live without me. We were normal. But the next day when I called him he said he is taking drogs and he is getting mad and asked me to marry someone else. What should I do. I told him that I love him a lot and can't live without him. Please suggest me how to make him understand that I really mean what I said. I will kill myself if he is going to talk on the same thing
Im from India. I and my boyfriend are in relationship for the past 3 years. I love him a lot. I can't live without him. I wanted to marry him this year and start family. But due to our custom in the community he wanted me to go to UK for education with him and later marry. I had so much problem to persuade my parents to send me abroad as they were worried about my security. I finally got the permission. I was a playful girl in school. He was my senior in schoo and he knows me as a schoolmate. We never talked in schoo. Then I joined the college where he was studying. And there too we didn't talk. For the past 3 years we were out of our hometown and studying. We got introduced, became friends and later lovers. I was having so many boyfriends in school. He knows everything. But he proposed me and didn't care about my earlier relationships. But I feel he never trust me. I know he is afraid that I will leave him. I will never do that. After my schoo I never talked with other boys unnecessarily. During my postgraduation I never talked with my class boys except one as he was my project mate. But he doesn't know my phone number. He is a decent guy and he has his own personal life. On my birthday last week he sent a message on my mobile wishing happy b'day.I replied thanks. As I am very true to my boyfriend I told him. He got angry and called that boy and scolded him using bad language. That boy scolded my boyfriend too. Then my boyfriend got angry over me and said we'll breakup. I said OK but he should marry me after 3 years. He said OK and the next morning he called me. He said sorry and also said he can't live without me. We were normal. But the next day when I called him he said he is taking drogs and he is getting mad and asked me to marry someone else. What should I do. I told him that I love him a lot and can't live without him. Please suggest me how to make him understand that I really mean what I said. I will kill myself if he is going to talk on the same thing