OK just to start hi everyone... and now I want to know why can't I orgasm. I have had sex a lot of times and its just not any fum for me now. I mean ni can orgasm on my own but not with a partner not even orally. Is it my fault?:confused:

No it's not your fault. You need extra stimulation or just time-there are many other threads about this same subject I'd advise you to read them.

Cheers.

It may partially be your fault. But not necessarily. Women have to have the correct mental state. If you are stressing about it then you may never get there. You also have to help your partner with finding your buttons so to speak, That part is up to you. However without a partner that has a clue as to how to please you then you won't likely get off with them either. It takes two.