doubfulGF
May 14, 2007, 10:03 PM
I broke up with my ex couple of weeks ago because I told him he needs to know what he wants in life. He's like someone who doesn't have dreams and ambitions and is a happy go lucky guy. He's too dependent on me. And is emotionless... he has no directions in life...
So when I broke up with him (and I was doubting that his repressed feelings had soemthing to do with his sexuality) ( I have a difft questins about the sexuality topic), I told him everything that I felt and observed in him and told him, love was not lost but that he needs to find himself...
Yesterday, after 2 weeks, he texted me inquiring about our investment (money) then I asked him if he was mad at me, he said not anymore... he also said that all you wrote in the email was true and that he didn't reply because he didn't know what to say.
He then said ˙ou're right, I need to find myself and know what I really want in life and take action...
So what are practical tips to help him with that? He said he wanted us to be friends... so how do I help him to know what he wants in life? And to find his own idntity? Aside from seeing a psychologist??
So when I broke up with him (and I was doubting that his repressed feelings had soemthing to do with his sexuality) ( I have a difft questins about the sexuality topic), I told him everything that I felt and observed in him and told him, love was not lost but that he needs to find himself...
Yesterday, after 2 weeks, he texted me inquiring about our investment (money) then I asked him if he was mad at me, he said not anymore... he also said that all you wrote in the email was true and that he didn't reply because he didn't know what to say.
He then said ˙ou're right, I need to find myself and know what I really want in life and take action...
So what are practical tips to help him with that? He said he wanted us to be friends... so how do I help him to know what he wants in life? And to find his own idntity? Aside from seeing a psychologist??