I have a girlfriend... shes really nice.. and we've been going out for over three months.. im her first bf) We talk a lot on the phone.. and once we started talking about things like erections and stuff... and the she asked me if you want to show our affection which means having sex.. and I'm like I don't know.. and she sent me a e-mail - "Cuz Maybe i want to". We've kissed like lots and I don't know what I should say about this.. She told me that if we did she has protection..

I would say... save yourself till marriage... and if your friends do it... don't go into peer pressure... save yourself for the person when you get married

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Perhaps your girlfriend thinks sex is what you want.

Try reassuring her of how much you like her and that sex is something that happens later when people are ready. STDs are so rampant and many are incurable, and I would have to wonder about an 8th grade chick carrying around a condom for "just in case".

Well I have a 14 year old son in the 8th grade, and my answer is.. NO! Just as I would tell him. No really sex is something for people who are older, there are a lot of fun things to do besides stressing out over sex and more. Your girlfriend is probably just bored and maybe someone else has treated her like sex is a big deal, so out of respect for her and yourself, just explain to her that sex isn't something that your interested in right now, Find something else to talk about, things that you have in common, go to a game together, sit by her and say nice things to her, but your virginity and hers is something to cherish. You guys have enough to worry about besides that.

No he didn't say he wasn't interested, Don't count on his parents drilling this into his head. And no not all 14 year old dismiss it.

She is young too. She might start to regret it and blame you... so chances are that nothing good could come from it this early in your life and in the relationship. Oh and if you need to ask about it, you're probably just not ready, which is totally fine!

I think she doesn't really want to do it because when you guys were on the phone you guys were talking about erections so she just got horny and she just felt like it but really she just doesn't want to do it and that email she sent it because she just doesn't want to back out of what she said when she was horny on the phone

OK my dude frist off your 15 you should think about it but I don't feel you guys should do it this is a huge step and it will change your relationship a lot more then people think it will I hope you make a good choice and good luck with everything tell her your not ready if she keeps going

I 100% agree with you.