Is it the way I feel when I am with her? Or is it the way I feel when she is not around? Or both we get along really good and I am a bit scared of getting too close because of past relationships. So is it something that I will just know or what? I thought I felt that way before but it was jaded. So someone give some advice.

Well this doesn't mean you are a total jerk ! HaHa... you like things that are beautiful and that's OK. I love my home, but while riding my car, I often see homes that I would love to live in. Its normal to look at other women, as long as your intent is to only look. When you find yourself wanting to know them better and actually flirting then you may have a problem.. Good Luck

I guess it depends how you're "checking out" the other women and if you're with your girlfriend at the time.

However, you did say you "settled" for your girlfriend. You just might be shallow after all.

Let me ask you this question. If your girlfriend was burned in the face would you stick with her? If yes then the relationship is okay. If no then you probably should end it.

I always say there is no harm in window shopping, however there are certain limits and values that cannot be over drawn, and obviously respecting your girl should be a vital priority.

Every body looks... but not everybody does anyhting about it, if you look but don't touch that's fine.

Its human nature just don't do it in front of her because you woould break her heart and you don't want that just because you see a pretty girl

God didn't make no ugly women, so you can't tell until they start talking.

God didn't make no ugly women, so you can't tell until they start talking.

Couldn't spread the love Tal, however, although I'm a lady... I LOL when I read this - you rock ;)

God didn't make no ugly women, so you can't tell until they start talking.

Well I had to spread it but I think this is the most accurate reply I've ever seen.

Its OK to look at other good looking women but don't hurt this girlfriend by comparing her with them. Its not fair and nobody would like the feeling of being compared.

Thanks doubfulGF :-)