We have gone out for 1 yr 3 months and I was an... a bad person I understood that and I have since really changed a lot, but she is now kissing another guy and asking me to wait while she clears her head... She tells me she loves me and will come back to me... But she doesent even think what she is doing is wrong.

If she loves you like she says she does, she will come back.

But in the mean time... leave her be. Keep in touch with her of course but make sure you're out having a good time as well.

I should but I just feel weird that she is fooling around with him and expecting me to be ready to let her back, I know were not going out but I feel cheated

I would feel akward as well. Are you currently with her?

no.. but she still calls every night and tells me she loves me. But in school she is a little standoffish

Hm, this is a difficult situation. She might want to explore a little more because she might not want to settle down just yet.

Yes I thonk you ar right ty

You're very welome. Just give her some time. And if she really does love you, she will come back. Best of luck!