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babydoll02
Apr 27, 2007, 05:36 PM
Im kind off dating a married man.. he also my school admission rep.. What should I do?

Clough
Apr 28, 2007, 02:24 AM
If you respect the fact that he is married, then I would not date him. Please back off. Marriage means that you have taken vows and made a commitment for life. I would respect those vows if I were you and not be tempting him. There are many fish in the sea, and you will find someone who is not attached to someone else eventually. And, someone who has the same interests as you.

If he is approaching you, then it means that he is possibly having problems being committed to being married, as well as possibly having problems in his marriage. I would steer clear of possible entanglement in marriage infidelity.

I have been attracted to women who were living with someone. As far as I was concerned they were free to be courted. But, as soon as they got married, I considered them to be off limits as far as a relationship concerning possible courtship or marriage was concerned.

It does not mean that I did not care about them or even love them. But, when people are married, that is something sacred to be respected.

Bluerose
Apr 28, 2007, 02:48 AM
Look at him again from this point of view……
If he is showing an interest in you then he is cheating on his wife, the woman he vowed to love. If he can treat her like that there is no telling how he will treat you - his bit on the side.

Respect yourself even if he doesn't and just tell him, “I don't think so!”