Hi there! I wonder if love spells really work... I'm doing now a NEW MOON LOVE SPELL and it takes 12 days. I'm at the 10th day.. when should the spell work? After finishing it? Cause right now I can't see any changes yet... Please if anybody can help me..

They don't work.

How could you be so sure? I mean this is my inly hope he will come back to me! :((

I think you can do many things that would give you more hope. For instance going and talking to him, improving yourself, showing him that you are a desirable person. A potion does none of these things.

There is a whole thread already devoted to this:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/psychics-fortune-tellers/love-spells-79510.html

Need karma I've already read that.. thanks anyway! And Capuchin I've tried to talk with him , he doesn't want to talk... I've tried to improve myself, he doesn't care... I did everything :( I have only hope now...

You need to move on. You cannot rely on spells and other things, you're losing grip of reality.

I believe they do work just as my affirmation of 'Body heal thy self' works. But are love spells ethical? Do you really want to make someone love you?

Please reconsider. It's never ethical to take away another human being's free will, and a love spell does exactly that. A love spell is a form of coercion, and it's especially harmful because the person usually has no idea they're being coerced. How do you supposed your beloved would feel, upon discovering they were manipulated into loving you? I doubt they'd like you very much after that. Wouldn't it be far better to allow them to decide for themselves whether they loved you, rather than having false feelings as a result of a love spell? How would you know if they really loved you?

Consider for a moment that you discovered that someone had used a love spell on you..........?

'Body heal thy self' is a natural process whereas the body wants to reach a state of homeostasis. Love spells are a figment of one's imagination.

For blue rose: But I know he still loves me.. but I don't know what is wrong with him... I just I wish he could talk with me...

NeedKarma,

"'Body heal thy self' is a natural process whereas the body wants to reach a state of homeostasis. Love spells are a figment of one's imagination."

Perhaps, but the affirmation is quite simply a way to occupy the mind in order to reduce worry and negative thoughts. Me believing that it works for me is still 'all in the mind' - same thing really.

I don't think a potion helps in that way, If I cast a love potion on someone, I would lay back and let that potion do all the work. Quite the opposite of the effect you describe. Maybe that is just me though.

alina_mystic,

How do you know he still loves you if he won't speak to you?

Try to see the situation for what it really is and not how you would like it to be. Besides you could cause untold damage trying to do spells when you don't know what you are doing. Would you really want to hurt him?

alina, switch to reality mode and just go talk to him. Try to find out if you did something to upset him. If that's the case, you could apologise and ask him if he would like to see you again.

I'm afraid you are going to have to accept the outcome. take a look around, maybe you are focusing on him so much you're not noticing anyone who may be genuinely interested in you.

I said in the other thread, and I'll say it in this one: Love spells are really bad juju unless you have had a TON of training as to how to do one (for example, casting a general "I'd like to attract someone who has these qualities" rather than "Make specifice person x be in love with me").

Taking away free will is AWAYS a bad thing.

I would like to ask, though... if he ALREADY loves you, and you know it, why cast a "love spell"? That seems like a huge waste of energy, when it would be simpler and easier just to TALK to him.

Do you have any spells to make someone in particular talk to me, syn? :p

Nope. And even if I did... spells take a LOT of work and energy. It's not "hocus pocus give me what I want" then lay back and eat bonbons and wait.

It's more like... research, think about it, do more research, think about it from another angle, get a second opinion, think again, meditate, think VERY hard about EXACTLY what you want (the more specific you are, the better), think about it again, figure out SPECIFIC wording, meditate, call energy, speak the spell, invest the energy, and trust.

Wouldn't it just be easier to walk over and talk to the person?

What is there to think about so much before casting your love spell? Where does trust come into play?

Trust means eat bonbons.

You have to trust in yourself, and in the energies that you called, that you did everything right. Any doubt at all, and you'll have problems.

The big things you're thinking about (for ANY spell, not just a love spell) is how this is going to affect you, the other person or people involved, and the world around you. If you say "I want to meet a handsome rich man that would be interested in me" you'll probably get it... but he WON'T have other qualities that you want, but didn't SAY you wanted... like "unmarried" or "honest" or "not abusive" --you get the idea.

Have you ever read "The Monkey's Paw"?

Like a genie, then?

Have you ever read "The Monkey's Paw"?I researched it and it is a 1902 fictional story. Nothing to do with the reality of 'casting spells'.

It *is* a fictional story.

But the moral of the story is "Be careful what you wish for".

Same thing goes for casting spells. If you're not careful, you WILL get what you wish for, but it won't be what you were thinking, it will be what you actually SAID in your spell.

One must learn to separate fact and fiction.

Yup.

Just like one must learn to separate the "fact and fiction" of the Bible.

Beliefs are beliefs. My religion believes that spells work. Other religions believe that prayer works.

I'm not trying to convince you, but the question was asked, and I answered to the best of my ability.

Synnen, great advice.

The rest of you, if you don't have any CONSTRUCTIVE input, stay out of it.

Whether you want to refer to it as "magic" or "miracles", it does exist. Tell a Christian that no matter how much you pray, God is never going to acknowledge your existence. I don't think they are going to be too happy about it. While I agree that love spells are a very, very, very bad idea (Especially if you have never cast any other spells in your life), tell a person that spells in general don't exist is even a worse idea.

End of my soap box.

Tell a Christian that no matter how much you pray, God is never going to acknowledge your existance. But it's true isn't it.


While I agree that love spells are a very, very, very bad idea (Especially if you have never cast any other spells in your life), tell a person that spells in general don't exist is even a worse idea.That's exactly what I am saying. And I don't think it's bad idea to say it.

They do work,you just have to think positive and invite all the positive energies that you can invite.you also have to have FAITH.I have used it and it worked.if it works, you have to make sure it's him that you really want. But they do work, I am a living proof. Plenty on eBay as well.

Hi there! I wonder if love spells really work...I'm doing now a NEW MOON LOVE SPELL and it takes 12 days. I'm at the 10th day..when should the spell work? after finishing it? cause right now I can't see any changes yet...Please if anybody can help me..
I remember seeing this great episode on the twilight zone one night... It was about this beautiful young woman whose lover left her for another. She went to a witch and asked for a love potion. Sure enough the witch had one and gladly offered it to her. She fed it to her lover and in an instant he was mesmerized by her once more. They galloped off to be wed. The night that was to be their honeymoon the bride and groom readied for a night of marital bliss. All of a sudden the young woman was overcome with an urge (what urge she could not know). She leaped into the night cursed by the very potion that made her dream come true. You see she had unknowingly sold her soul for the love of this man. There was no heart left in her for she had stolen the heart of another. Tit for tat my dear. Ever thought how you would feel if someone cast a spell on you? I would think long and hard before conjuring any more potions.

They do work,you just have to think positive and invite all the positive energies that you can invite.you also have to have FAITH.I have used it and it worked.if it works, you have to make sure it's him that you really want. but they do work, I am a living proof. plenty on ebay as well.

Exactly. Positive thinking works. Spells don't.

I think they work I'v never tried a love spells, but if you have the power then yes... tell me how it goes!

Beliefs are beliefs. My religion believes that spells work. Let me get this straight: you are the Adult Sexuality Expert on this site and you believe that love spells work. Is that correct?

I believe in many things, including the Great Flying Speghetti Monster, Bigfoot, aliens, fairies, the Loch Ness Monster, time travel, and that stupid people should just be allowed to have to live with their stupidity with no one making it all better for them.

I am Wiccan. Wicca - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wicca)

Part of that belief system has to do with spells, so yes, I believe that if done correctly, spells can work. Between you and me, I think that spells work slightly better than prayer does, because it's a greater focusing of energy.

My question back to you now is: What the hell do my religious beliefs have to do with whether I'm the Adult Sexuality expert?

It wasn't about your religious beliefs (you should know me better than that :)) it's about the love spells. Are love spells something you would recommend to people here?

I wouldn't recommend a love spell to anyone asking for one. I thought I'd made it clear in my posts about love spells that casting one without specific knowledge would be a Very Bad Thing.

People who want love spells don't really want love spells. They want things to go their way in a relationship, and that's NOT giving the other person the free will to choose them or not.

Let's put it this way: As a general rule, I think that anyone NOT trained in casting spells should have about as much business casting them as an untrained person doing an appendectomy. YES, occasionally you hear about it working, but most of the time, it's just going to make things worse.

Hi there! I wonder if love spells really work...I'm doing now a NEW MOON LOVE SPELL and it takes 12 days. I'm at the 10th day..when should the spell work? after finishing it? cause right now I can't see any changes yet...Please if anybody can help me..
I am a white witch and I did a "love spell" recently just to get a male's attention and it worked just fine... I did it on a Thursday and when Saturday came, 2 guys came up to me in a market and got my number. So, if you believe in it, try it. Do what you and your heart desire. "]


Love,
Ninii

Hi there! I wonder if love spells really work...I'm doing now a NEW MOON LOVE SPELL and it takes 12 days. I'm at the 10th day..when should the spell work? after finishing it? cause right now I can't see any changes yet...Please if anybody can help me..
Oh, and one more thing... keep Karma in mind. If you infer on other's lives in a bad situation, then something bad will happen to you. What goes around comes around.


Ninii


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I believe they work if only to put you in a receptive frame of mind. But using one on someone is not fair - to say the least.

I say everyone desevers there god given free will and that should never be taken away... and spells, karma, chi, pray it all has to do with how firm you are in what you beleave if you wake up and say its going to be a bad day... its going to be a bad day... same as if you said its going to be good... you would be surprised at how much power the human mind has and what the body can do... if your able to truly focus your energys and know how to focus it... put in mined what you want.. and it will start to happen others will see it... cause it just radates off you... thats me =) good luck with everything... and about losing the love... I know how that gose... because I fell comepletely in love with this girl... and then I let her go... and I've been trying to get her back ever since... its been over 8 months... and I went on a camping trip and on that I got some deep down to heart advice from my cousin... and is that sometimes the times just not right and if you try to rush things you might just make it worse... so message me if you feel like or what evers cleaver... and you might want to watch a movie called "What the Bleep Do We Know"

If they did work wouldn't we be with other people. Like I would be with debbie moore, Pamela Anderson. The list is endless. If they did exist then please give them to me.

Hello,
As long as you don't mess with free will. You should have seen results.

Peace.

It depends on the kind of spell. If you want a specific person to fall in love with you, then it won't work... unless those are his true feelings for you.

If however you use a spell (and since it's a new moon love spell I think so?) to influence love in your life, to have a general request like "I want to find the one that is mr. right to me" or something like that.. then it will work.

Did you transfix it to 12 days though? Not sure if the universe will listen to that... ;)

I have studied wicca for about three years now and yes if you cast a love speel for the right reasons then it will work... I have done some before for friends and they worked I have also done one for myself and I met the guy of my dreams

i have studied wicca for about three years now and yes if you cast a love speel for the right reasons then it will work...i have done some before for friends and they worked i have also done one for myself and i met the guy of my dreamsI cast a spell and I now have $4 million.

[QUOTE=NeedKarma]I cast a spell and I now have $4 million.[/QUOT

I have a feeling that u are being sacastic

You can feel me from where you are? :(

Yes I can :eek:

What am I doing now?

I cannot see what you are doing I only get feelings about things

I've studied Wicca for 15 years, and I don't believe that "love" spells work.

Attraction spells, yes.

Forcing someone specific to fall in love with you, however, is a violation of free will and is BLACK magic.

Remember, it will come back at you threefold, and not necessarily the way you think it will.

Please stop perpetuating the idea that love spells work. It makes those of us who treat Wicca as a true religion look like we're doing something scary and powerful, when that's not how it works.

And type in complete sentences, please. Those of us who have actually STUDIED don't appreciate looking like idiots because someone else who follows our religion doesn't know how to spell the word "you".

Love spells work, but be careful. There is a fascinating story we have in Wicca about the dangers of love spells. You don't want to force anyone to love you, just as you wouldn't want that weirdo in math class to force you to love him.

Hi there! I wonder if love spells really work...I'm doing now a NEW MOON LOVE SPELL and it takes 12 days. I'm at the 10th day..when should the spell work? after finishing it? cause right now I can't see any changes yet...Please if anybody can help me..

Don't listen to the "it doesn't work" or free will stuff... you are not going against a person's free will nor are you trying to "make" a person fall in love with you... I know that's not your intent... there really is no such thing as "making a person fall in love with you" or "forcing false feelings" and it does work when you believe it works... you cannot or should not make it your intent to "make" a person love you... love spells have been portrayed badly in movies and TV for years... they really do not manipulate or harm a person nor are they hypnotizing nor are you making them your "love slaves" etc. the truth is is that you are sending your message up to the universe the gods and goddesses and all other spirits to send back to the person... and for that person to realize and accept the truth in a peaceful way

Having doubts will break your spell... or perhaps try adding something into the mix... like "for him to realize the good in me" try listening to the radio... the radio is typically the first sign a spell is beginning to work... like hearing every song that you used to discuss or listen to because it reminded you of him... also how you felt physically when you were with the person...

You just need to look for the signs around you like the radio TV or physical feelings and the signs of nature... like the smells you would smell while you were together... and be patient... spells don't work like Harry Potter or Hocus Pocus... and the person won't fall for you instantly like a cartoon character

Try a waxing or full moon... for this type of spell... also maybe try doing a spell during the waxing phase to get rid of all tensions between the both of you before trying again...

Hope this helps :D

don't listen to the "it doesn't work" or free will stuff...you are not going against a person's free will nor are you trying to "make" a person fall in love with you...i know that's not your intent...there really is no such thing as "making a person fall in love with you" or "forcing false feelings" and it does work when you believe it works...you cannot or should not make it your intent to "make" a person love you...love spells have been portrayed badly in movies and TV for years...they really do not manipulate or harm a person nor are they hypnotizing nor are you making them your "love slaves" etc. the truth is is that you are sending your message up to the universe the gods and goddesses and all other spirits to send back to the person...and for that person to realize and accept the truth in a peaceful way

having doubts will break your spell...or perhaps try adding something into the mix...like "for him to realize the good in me" try listening to the radio...the radio is typically the first sign a spell is beginning to work...like hearing every song that you used to discuss or listen to because it reminded you of him...also how you felt physically when you were with the person...

you just need to look for the signs around you like the radio tv or physical feelings and the signs of nature...like the smells you would smell while you were together...and be patient...spells don't work like Harry Potter or Hocus Pocus...and the person won't fall for you instantly like a cartoon character

try a waxing or full moon... for this type of spell...also maybe try doing a spell during the waxing phase to get rid of all tensions between the both of you before trying again...

hope this helps :D


I hope you do not seriously believe what you are saying. How can you say that casting a love spell on someone does not force them to love you? 9 times out of 10, when someone asks about casting a love spell on another person, the other person DOES NOT love them. If they did, there would be no need for the spell. So, 99% of the time, when you cast a love spell on someone your intent IS to MAKE them fall in love with you, which is against the laws of Wicca (of course if you are not Wiccan then you are not subject to our laws but then in retrospect karma will still get you). You should go back over your magical training and do more studies on love magic.

This thread is over TWO YEARS OLD.

If you want to discuss spells, please start another thread.

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