I'm fairly youg and I've only been having sex for a few years, all with one guy. I've not been able to have an orgasm since I starting having sex. What are we doing wrong. Positions condoms, and moods aren't helping... Any Advice>?

There is no such thing as a "wrong condom."

What exactly have you done? Has he stimulated your clitoris?

[QUOTE=yougotit]I'm fairly youg and I've only been having sex for a few years, all with one guy. I've not been able to have an orgasm since I starting having sex. What are we doing wrong. Positions condoms, and moods aren't helping... Any Advice>?[/QUOTE

There are lots of good books out there as well as artificial aids, get adventurous and lose any inhibitions that you may have, things will improve as soon as you stop worrying about it. Just go with it and enjoy. Take care, love and peace anne x

You got it ahh I hate like hell to post this here with my name and all but at 40 it still never happened for me through intercourse and I have been having sex over 25 years. Sorry

There is no such thing as a "wrong condom."

What exactly have you done? Has he stimulated your clitoris?


KEPI AHH LOL WELL ABOUT THE WRONG CONDOM THING? I SEEN SOME OF EM SO SMALL THAT THEY COULD NOT HOLD A CONDOM EVEN THE 'SNUG'FIT' ONES Oh Gawwd what a life I have:confused:2 pump chumps darn it

Well... I guess that proves that there is a wrong condom. And those poor fellows should use something like a large rubber band or something so that the condom stays in place =D

Can you bring yourself to orgasm with self stimulation?

I'm fairly youg and I've only been having sex for a few years, all with one guy. I've not been able to have an orgasm since I starting having sex. What are we doing wrong. Positions condoms, and moods aren't helping.... Any Advice>?

Has he given you oral sex? :D ;)

It's a little of both peoples fault..

#1 you have to be ready and open for it... and have a clue how to get there..

#2 He has to have more than a clue on how to get you there.


Don't believe me... 90% of the time me and my wife can have simultaneous orgasms... if not within a minute of each other.

It goes to show you what's possible when you each know each other that well.

Yes hehas given me oral and it works much better.. I'm just getting frustrated because I feel like it's always me that says NO to sex.. and it's because I'm just not getting anything out of it.. I feel selfish but at the same time it's been a long time..

Kepi LMFAO here ! Yes I can have one if I do it myself, KEPI OMG HAHAHA your cracking me up here.

Question>>>>>> How come I always get the guys with the 3 inch ( thatt is when HARD IT MAY be 3 inches and yet with the guy that totally screwed me over that I was with for 8 years HE had what it took>? IS it that only the BAD BOYS have the BIG ONES and BTW SIZE DOES MATTER. Can't hold a condom on my lordy that is teeny.

Look at the post for "Chickyjaybaby".

Young girls need time on this subject and should not rush.

Your body and mind are giving you a message: take your time.

There are many years of great sex ahead. Make sure your life and your school
And career are on track and the more you like yourself as you age, the better lover you will be...

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