derwon25
Feb 20, 2017, 07:39 AM
Hi,
Here's my situation:
A friend I made during my school days like around 10 years back and on-and-off we've been in touch. His personality if I describe is kind-of dull and boring as in no sense of humour (or maybe his sense of humour surpasses my understandings so maybe I don't get it :P), as such he is not a good conversationalist, he is miser, between the 2 of us I don't get what he says or his jokes and vice versa. He is very very interfering and keeps on poking me knowing clearly and seeing that I'm ignoring him. And I feel he is stupid (or doesn't apply his brains not even normally let alone to the fullest) owing to which even if at times I share any joke or ask for any advise when I am upset I first should be prepared to elaborate what I mean by that question/joke which in itself if so annoying in that situation. People have asked me that then how did you guys become friends then, and honestly I don't have an answer to that question. Honestly, I don't.
At this point in time, I'm so annoyed by him that literally I am not giving a care about what he is texting me nor do I ever reply but still everyday he keeps texting me. I guess, this itself shows his stupidity. He is showing me that he is stupid not to understand that if a person is not responding, give her sometime and space and maybe when the time is right she will call you/revert. Huh!! How tough is it to understand. Anyway, secondly he is showing me that he has no self-respect for himself.
Now, since I've known him for 10 odd years, I don't want to end anything abruptly or block him or insult him by telling him to stop texting me, you are pissing me off more and more everyday with your messages. But really, I am not understanding how to deal with him? Can you please advice?
Thanks,
Pragya
Here's my situation:
A friend I made during my school days like around 10 years back and on-and-off we've been in touch. His personality if I describe is kind-of dull and boring as in no sense of humour (or maybe his sense of humour surpasses my understandings so maybe I don't get it :P), as such he is not a good conversationalist, he is miser, between the 2 of us I don't get what he says or his jokes and vice versa. He is very very interfering and keeps on poking me knowing clearly and seeing that I'm ignoring him. And I feel he is stupid (or doesn't apply his brains not even normally let alone to the fullest) owing to which even if at times I share any joke or ask for any advise when I am upset I first should be prepared to elaborate what I mean by that question/joke which in itself if so annoying in that situation. People have asked me that then how did you guys become friends then, and honestly I don't have an answer to that question. Honestly, I don't.
At this point in time, I'm so annoyed by him that literally I am not giving a care about what he is texting me nor do I ever reply but still everyday he keeps texting me. I guess, this itself shows his stupidity. He is showing me that he is stupid not to understand that if a person is not responding, give her sometime and space and maybe when the time is right she will call you/revert. Huh!! How tough is it to understand. Anyway, secondly he is showing me that he has no self-respect for himself.
Now, since I've known him for 10 odd years, I don't want to end anything abruptly or block him or insult him by telling him to stop texting me, you are pissing me off more and more everyday with your messages. But really, I am not understanding how to deal with him? Can you please advice?
Thanks,
Pragya