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Alyharp101
Feb 14, 2017, 06:10 PM
How do I tell him how I feel? We dated once before but called it off because of family problems. But I really do not know how to tell him how I feel and I sure don't want to make a fool of myself. What do I do?

smoothy
Feb 14, 2017, 06:15 PM
You only LIKE the same guy.. its not like either of you are married to him, engaged to him or even dating him. There is no hands off rule when it applies to just "liking someone".

The old axiom....if you snooze, you lose applies. Early bird gets the worm....if you see the point.

talaniman
Feb 14, 2017, 06:54 PM
How old are all of you, and is this the ex from your other question? What about you and the guy from that question you were dating? Is your friend actually dating this guy and does she know you want him back? What kind of family problems messed you guys up before, and have they been resolved?

All those small details really do matter, no matter how strong your feelings for someone may be, and expressing them may not be right, or appropriate at this time. Can you clear up some of those small details for me please?

Homegirl 50
Feb 14, 2017, 09:41 PM
I think it matters to you or you would not have asked. Are these two dating? Does he like her? If so you would not be a friend by telling him this. What would be the point? Have the problems that broke you up been resolved? How old are you guys?

catonsville
Feb 15, 2017, 01:34 AM
You might win him, but lose a friend in the process. Is it worth it?

joypulv
Feb 15, 2017, 12:10 PM
You asked totally unrelated questions, one in the title, and others in the rest of the post. Please specify what you really want advice about.