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iamme16
Dec 9, 2016, 08:29 PM
Me and this guy have been talking for like 3 months now and for the last two weeks we have not been talking that much. He says that he's been busy with work but I still think he should make an effort to at least text me right? So we've texted yesterday and he was being really dry and distant and he didn't text me at all. I really want to call him and tell him how I feel but I don't know if its really worth it or should I just move on.

J_9
Dec 9, 2016, 08:45 PM
Move on. You have only been "talking," so you aren't in a committed relationship. You are free to do your own thing, which is probably what he is doing too.

smoothy
Dec 9, 2016, 08:53 PM
I'm a guy... he obviously isn't all that into you. I agree move on... someone else will be.

Alty
Dec 9, 2016, 09:55 PM
A guy that's interested will find the time to talk with the girl he likes. If he's not contacting you or making any effort to chat with you, it's because he's lost interest in you.

Move on. It's not like you're in a relationship with this guy, you're only talking.

talaniman
Dec 10, 2016, 10:40 AM
Take the hint, if it hasn't gotten better in 3 months, it probably won't. I mean who has time to JUST TALK for 3 months? I'm a guy and 3 months of just talking loses it's value really quick when there are better things to do.

Doesn't even sound like you are even good text buddies any more, so have you even gotten together for at least ONE date? If NO, why NOT?