I've always had a problem of falling too fast and therefore too hard for women. I know it scares them that after a couple of weeks I'm in love with them. How do I not fall so fast and hard? Any techniques, skills, thoughts, mind-set that I can use to offset this?

Step number one is grasp the concept this is lust... not love. Lust is hormone driven and is visually driven,...Love comes from learning and liking the personality traits the person has over a long period of time.

There is a HUGE difference between them yet they might feel the same to an inexperienced person.

Lust comes on strong fast but fades fast... love takes a long time to develop but it lasts or can last a very long time.

Lust "can" be the precursor to love... but more often than not.. it isn't.

You have to realize you are not in love, and for goodness sake don't tell them you are in love. Stop looking for "the one" and just enjoy getting to know the person.