I have been seeing this man for about 6 months now its got to the point where I think I'm in love with him, I can't get him out of my mind, at first he was all over me like a rash but now he only comes round when he's been out down town but still stops the night, I can't imagine what he tells his wife and I feel very bad for her but obviously he isn't getting the attention there so he comes and sees me for a bit of tlc. I keep telling myself dunt carry on with this because he's a married man and everyone says he won't leave his wife for you and that he will prob start to resent you, but I can't say no to him it dunt help that he's a millionaire and he takes me to some really nice places, he treats me a lot and I isn't going to lie its brilliant but it's the fact I want him to myself now I'm getting so depressed about it can anyone tell me any different to make me leave him HELP!:(

The biggest reason to leave him, IS HE IS MARRIED. If that does not stop you then nothing will?

Maybe your not the only one he is screwing around with. If there are others what are the chances of him having Hiv or some other kind of disease?

Millionaire, well well well, money is important to you. So your willing to be considered a slu# by others because your with a married man and your using him for his money which makes you a hooker.

Does this do it for you?

Do you want people to look at you with disgust or what happens if his wife finds out, she might kill you. Do you want that?

Joe

Please take the time to read this thread -- Savage
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/ending-affair-75306.html

There's so many single men out there, why waste your time... maybe someday you'll REALLY meet the love of your life. Good Luck!

Sounds just like it is out of the pages of "Pretty Woman" With one exception when the movie was over everyone knew it was just a movie. There was no wife to get hurt, she didn't loose a husband, there were no kids involved, to loose their daddy. It was just some people acting out on stage. I admit that it sounds inviting to have a lot of money, and to be able to have a whore in a hotel room waiting for you each time you got an urge to get it on with her.
But there is nothing good about what you are doing, you are showing the world that you have no self worth, no pride, and if you two are having sex without condoms, you are risking your health. Do your parents, if they are living, have any knowledge of what you are doing? If so I am sure they are so proud, I can hear your mother now at the checkout counter at the grocery store telling the checker "that her daughter got a new dress this week and all she had to do was put out a little for this marred guy, I sure hope it last she has got a good deal"

Wake up you are nothing more that another notch on his sexual belt.

Money for sexual favors makes you a prostitute.

If you gave him sex for free that makes you a "HO!

Yes it is obvous that you are having sex with him for his money, that is OK, many women do it, just be honest to yourself what and who you are.

And of course he will not get a divorce, he would not lose that much money if he does not have to.

And of course you can lie to yourself that his wife does not care or is bad to him, but that is most likely not the case, or at least was not the case until he starting sleeping around.

And honestly most likely he does not come by as much because he has another lady in town he is with, ( the new toy of the month) and comes by your place when he wants someone else or the other lady is not available.

If you want to have this sort of relationship, not there for christmas, or birthdays or holidays and finally when you get old and not as pretty, he just moves on, then you actually deserve all the heartbreak you will be gettting soon.

funnybunny01, I'm glad to hear that you let him go. Keep your head up. Remember, you are beautiful!