I have a guy friend whose touched me up and fingered me but when I asked if he likes me he said only in a mate way so then why did he touch me and now he wants a blow job?

Because he knows you are easy.

Are you going to give him a blowjob? Why would you let someone do that to you?

Why don't you "Huff and Puff and Blow in his Ear", that is all he is worth, if that. Don't get used, kick him to the curb.
You deserve better.

A guy doesn't have to like you to sleep with you. In fact he doesn't even need to find you attractive. He wants something and you are giving it to him... free with no conditions or requirements.

He's using you because you are easy and you let him. Pretty soon everyone will know you are easy and will sleep with anyone, and that reputation will be a very, very difficult one to live down.

35+ years after I graduated high school everyone still remembers who the easy girls were. So that's a very long time.

Your parents will be proud of you when they find this out....and they will, ...when a lot of people around you know...you can be sure they are going to know. They are neither dumb, nor clueless.

Guys your age brag to their friends, and in fact they will usually even embellish upon the story claiming you did MORE than you actually did.......and they tell their friends and soon everyone knows.

Teen relationships

ambrin0987 (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/ambrin0987.html) Smoothy, is spot on, if you are smart you will NOT go down THAT Road. Also, news today travels almost
at the speed of light.

Smoothy is correct. Last night, I read an article about young teens and oral sex. The girls give blowjobs in hopes of getting love and a relationship from the guys. The boys demand blowjobs simply for sexual release and don't care anything about feelings or love or relationships.

Why would he finger you, feel you up, if he doesn't actually care about you? Easy. Because you let him feel you up and finger you and you're actually contemplating giving him a blow job. You're easy. He can do all these things to you without actually making a commitment.

Boys like sex, that's all they think about as teens. For the girls they love and respect, they'll wait. But the girls that just give it up with no commitment at all, they'll use them as much as the girl allows.

You're allowing it. He won't ever date you, you're a friend, a "mate", that allows him to finger her, feel her up, and, if he gets his next wish, a blow job too.

You're easy. Is that what you want to be? I doubt it.

Where did you get the idea that a guy that wants sexual favors loves you? At least he was honest that all he wanted was to play with your body for his own pleasure. Some guys would LIE and say they love you to get into your pants, or get you into theirs.

You still say no, because you respect yourself more than to be a friendly sex toy for a horny guy. Then a guy will have to respect YOU, even if he doesn't love you! Sex without love AND respect is just LUST.

Most teens don't understand the BIG difference. If you do not, and it sounds like you don't, you should not engage in ANY kind of sex. It's no fun to be used for a free quick thrill by a horny dude who can't wait to tell his friends about it. They will be around to check you out too!

Guys don't care where we get our thrills, as long as we get them. Smoothy is 100% correct. The easier the better!