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Shania p
Dec 6, 2015, 01:49 AM
I was out with my guy friend and a guy that's in my economics and finance class likes me has my number while walking with my guy friend the guy that likes me (Chris) says
" hey can you reply to my last message I want to talk" so he waves then walks away and my guy friend says "text him" and I start to laugh then he says "what? go ahead I'm not jealous" and I said "I never said you were jealous " and he said "okay well I just don't want you "dreaming or thinking I am or did get jealous" why would he think I thought he was going to get jealous?. he's my friend...

talaniman
Dec 6, 2015, 05:43 AM
He was just being a friend and reassuring you that he wasn't jealous. Maybe he thinks that he is stopping you from dating opportunities by spending so much time as your friend. I don't think you make that big a deal of this simple affirmation though, as confusing as it may be for you at the moment.

How old are you and your friend?

talaniman
Dec 6, 2015, 09:06 AM
No need to start another question about the same thing. Please be patient for responses as others visit the site. Better to add additional feedback/facts to further the conversation.

Your ages would be a great fact to add to the discussion.

Shania p
Dec 6, 2015, 09:31 AM
I'm 19 he is 21

talaniman
Dec 6, 2015, 09:36 AM
You should just ask your friend what he meant by his comments.

Shania p
Dec 6, 2015, 09:41 AM
You should just ask your friend what he meant by his comments.
Okay.. will do

talaniman
Dec 6, 2015, 09:48 AM
Please share what he says with us, as well as why his comments confused you.