This is a question I got from a non muslim friend of mine. Please guide me how and what should I answer.

Once the pure Muslim dies ,he is provided with beautiful boys & also many beautiful hoors to suit his sexual taste or mood.But He will not provide the ladies any such thing .No equal status even in jannat & why don't you protest for this discrimination .If the promise given to males is wrong ,Pl. correct me if I'm wrong. We have democratic system in our religion ,we follow & respect it not out of fear.

Religion is not democratic. Men developed the rules, and men are given more rights and more gifts.

What do YOU believe... or maybe more important, what were YOU taught?

As was mentioned... I don't see much or even any democracy in your religious system. A select few men who were not elected by your people decide what everyone else is going to do... and everyone has to do it or suffer the consequences. If it was democratic everyone would get together and decide what they wanted and the decision of the Majority would be what everyone is going to do.

he is provided with beautiful boys & also many beautiful hoors to suit his sexual taste or mood.
Really! When did this changed? Or it was like that since before. I Just new that Men will get Hoors/virgins. I didn't know about 'beautiful boys'. Was this added after being any influence from supreme court order in America?

Really! When did this changed? Or it was like that since before. I Just new that Men will get Hoors/virgins. I didn't know about 'beautiful boys'. Was this added after being any influence from supreme court order in America?
I think anyone that even wants "pretty boys like that is no different than someone that wants pretty little girls. They are all perverts.

How could they be anything else when the one who started was perverted. The excuse that these things were culture is not the truth