HI,
I been with the same guy for about 3 years and we are just beginning to get sexually active. We started having sex about 3 months now and it started normal. Then about one and a half to two months into it I started to become wetter than usual. He said he did not know what I was doing but it was great. Now all of a sudden I'm back to how I was at the beginning. Something that may have been the cause of me being wetter than normal is that fact that I was participating in lent with my church. That may be a factor because I could not drink anything but water, but I do not know if that was the cause. Could someone please help me satisfy my man and myself again and tell me what happened. Or tell me what can I do to become wetter??

Any difference in how excited you were getting at that time? Usually that's keyed to that from my experience. I once had a girlfriend that go so wet you could see it running down her leg... and I'm not kidding. Se was an unusually responsive woman as well.

Any difference in how excited you were getting at that time? Usually thats keyed to that from my experience. I once had a girlfriend that go so wet you could see it running down her leg....and I'm not kidding. Se was an unusually responsive woman as well.


That is how I had been usually. Lately I had been so wet that it runs down my legs and gets everywhere. He says it is so amazing. Yea I guess maybe, I I had been going all day horny as I do not know what. I had just been wanting it so bad, but I still have been wanting it a lot. I really do not know what is different.

Maybe a difference between wanting and really being ready for it... Probably the difference in your mental state at the time. I know with the wife it's a matter of her level of excitedness. She however has never approached the level you are an ex-girlfriend achieved, which I will say was a real cool experience so I know his perspective on that. What level any one woman gets to it unique to her from my first hand observations over the years. But who close she will get to her own peak is completely dependent on her mental state and level of excitedness. And that will vary over time.

LUBE!

I was always naturally wet enough until I went on a medication that dried me up. But buying some lubricant from the chemist, supermarket, or adult store has made everything great again :)

Maybe not as much as a turn on, but as far as functionality goes, it does the trick perfectly

Hydration

Some women actually ejeculate. When they have an intense orgasm they er... I can't think of a good word for it... produce a sudden flow of liquid making the whole area drastically wetter. No one knows what causes it and why all women can't do it. I have heard of women being embarrassed by it because its not something that is talked about. I have done in the past, especially when I was young and trying out new things. Try experienting with different styles of orgasm (clitoral, anal and through your g-spot. Rubbing, licking, tickling, humming ect) and have lots of fun trying to recreate it.
Lube all ways works and it can actually be a lot more sexy then people think. It can be introduced into foreplay. Use it to give him a hand job before sex for example.

When I was younger I would have died before telling anyone but now my mates are totally jealous. Especially as I can have all over body orgasms too. And can have one with out being touched any where intimate. Lol