"I am a 13 year old teenager and me and this guy, which is 19, have been having sex for about 7 months, and he starts out without a condom and then pulls out and puts a condom on. Well, my mom thinks that I am pregnant and I am really scared. I haven't had a period since February 21, and it's April 10. I have never missed a period before. They are always on time and regular. I am always tired. I can just walk to the mail box and I feel like I am going to pass out. I get light headed and dizzy easily, and sometimes feel like I am going to faint. My lower back has been hurting me for a few weeks, and my breasts are very tender. It seems like I have to urinate at least 3 times an hour. I'm a tiny girl, and I have never ate that much. But, now if I even see someone eating I start craving it, and I will wake up in the middle of the night craving food, and I have been gaining quit a bit of weight. Some of the foods that I used to like, taste really nasty to me now. I also have mood swings. One minute I will be all happy, laughing and carrying on, and then the next minute I am ready to kill someone, and I have been having high fevers lately. But, I feel bloated. My pants are getting to small for me now, and my mom thinks that I am getting a little "pudge". I took a home pregnancy test, but it came back negative. I don't know what to do. I have all the pregnancy symptoms, but I am scared to go to the doctor. Please give me some information on what I should do. I would appreciate it if you would E-Mail me back with the information. Thank you very much!"

I think you need to go to the doctor and get a blood test. Don't be scared, be safe.

Yes call planned parenthood or something like that. Or maybe someone at your church. Or another family member. BTW you do realize that this guy is going to go to jail.

Hey, If you took the home pregnancy test a at least a couple weeks after you started having feelings you were pregnant then you may want to check again. Don't forget the pregnancy tests are not 100% accurate. I am not trying to freak you out by saying you are pregnant but it does seem like it. Do you get naucious at all? If you are unsure the pregnancy tests are right then it seems like you should get to a doctor to find out because if you are pregnant then you will need to start taking care of yourself and make sure you don't do anything to harm the baby. I am 16 years old and I myself have just had a baby. Try not to be afraid of doctors because they are there to help. The doctors I saw were nice and friendly and they try to keep you comfortable while see how everything is going.
I am here if you need to talk, or if you have msn messenger let me know and we can talk if you would like.

I agree with Matt3046 on this.

Teenagers need to be thought the full insight of pregnancy and motherhood by their own parents because after all they are KIDS themselves.

Matt is right to say the guy could go to jail... come on she is 13... 13!!

But for your own safety and well-being do go to the doctor.Is your boyfriend going to support u?

Baby thompson-are you going to go to the doctor? Let us know. You need to find out as you shouldn't avoid this situation.

For some reason I am personally offended by your statement matt3046. My first son was born just before I turned twenty and although it has been difficult, I am so very proud of my son and the strength that it takes to be young and raise a child comes from within and is so powerful it is hard for me to describe. My son is twelve now; smart, athletic, kind, giving, loving, and was just nominated by his teacher to be a delegate in a leadership academy during the summer. It takes a lot of strength, determination, patience, and love to raise a child and I am thinking that you do not have any children. What's done is done and I commend you asuka for raising your baby and by your avatar it seems to me you love your baby and probably put him before yourself and although you are young you seem to have a good head on your shoulders, so from parent to parent I wish you the best. :)
Baby thompson you need to talk to someone that can explain the different options and do what is best for you if you are pregnant. I believe you need some guidance to help you make your choices as you are very young in making this lifelong decision.

I agree with everyone else go to the doctors only they call tell then you can decide what you want to do sine your only 13

You need to go to the doctor. It will be a long hard road if you are . If you are not I suggest not having sex anymore. You are only 13 and this guy is 19. You should be worrying about kid stuff not having babies. Good Luck