Either make the problem go away effectively and safely with little trauma or advise a DIY solution but stop attacking me from all fronts! This is torture! Do you really think I want to be informed of all the stuff she's doing? I don't! If only a fraction of the money they spent on acquiring all that media was just allocated to getting me a vehicle and helping me do something else I think perhaps we'd be farther along, why spend so much to make me want to get a divorce? Do they think I won't go through with it? Who decided that she's unrecoverable?

What are you talking about? Can you be a little more cryptic?

Where and to who, do you think you are sending this message to? This is an international question and answer website. No one knows you, knows what you are talking about.

This should be interesting after we find out WHAT is going on !

I have retitled the question using with the title from a duplicate posting. While this gives us a question it still does not give us enough information to base our advice on.

If you are as confused by the lack of background for the 'note' as we are, perhaps you should ask your husband what it means. Communication is a cornerstone of a successful marriage.

Where did you find it? Was it written by your husband? Do you have any thoughts on who and what it is talking about?

Other than talking with him, I wish I could give you more advice.

IF it was actually written by your husband and IF he isn't a bigamist, THEN he is talking about you. Are you unrecoverable? Does your husband not have a car?

The fact that you are so naive about how to ask a question on a website full of strangers has me worried that this alleged writing by your husband isn't his at all. If that were true, you would have some clue already what it meant.

We have no idea to who or why he was writing this. Without that knowledge at least, then there is no way we could answer this question for you...if it is even really a question.

And here I was feeling it was just me that felt like the odd person out that didn't have a working crystal ball.

My second thoughts, is that there is no communication. If there was, this person could merely ask the other person what the problem is, and what they are talking about.

It does sound like someone is very unhappy and there are problems in the relationship

I'm really confused... where did you find this? Who is this in reference to? Are you going through a divorce/separation?