I wanted to go a cool ash blonde. I have medium to dark brown hair. I first used Revlon color silk dark age blonde 60. It barely lightened my hair and dried it out. I then bought super blonde and now have a unatural banna yellow mix. I then went and used a brass remover and it helped a little but not enough. I'm desperat e and embarrassed.
I have a Loreal Ashe blonde 8A would this help the color or what? I know I need to condition a lot. Please help.

Count your blessings you have any hair left ! If I were you, I would just get a very short hair cut for now and forget the dye!

Lots of conditioner AFTER will not do the job if your hair is cooked.