Hi everyone,

I dated a girl in my teens for 4 years and we were obviously very much in love. I'm 20 now and we have separated (rough separation too); but the thing is... I STILL LOVE HER VERY MUCH. I have dated other girls and they love me but I didn't love them as much as I did her (if I did love them at all). She has her dude but I really need her in my life... please help:(

We all have our high school loves but as we mature and move on we expand our horizons into adulthood. Give it more time and get busy building your life with out her, by focusing on you and your future. She has moved on and so should you. Stop telling yourself how much you need some one, not only is this immature but it feeds you false hope and stops you from growing emotionally.