hottexaswife
Mar 17, 2015, 08:35 AM
Can't list everything that has happened to my marriage during the last 34 years, or it would be a book. Shortly after my husband and I got married, I became pregnant with our first child. During this time, my husband started staying out until 3 or 4 am and come home drunk. He would do this several times a week. He did this for about 20 years of our marriage. He traveled a lot for his job. One the way home, which was about an hour long drive, he would pick up a six pack of beer and have it finished before he got home. He was literally driving drunk in the company car, therefore putting our families future in jeopardy, if he got caught.
His family has also added lots of problems to our marriage. His mother cursed me out the day he and I got married, simply because I forgot to stop and hug her on the way out of church. My husband said nothing to her. From that point on, she has talked about me behind my back, given Christmas gifts that the kids made for her back to me, never approved of anything I have done, lied behind my back, etc. Her daughter has done the same thing over the years. My husband's brother, stood in my kitchen and told his dad that he was out at our place, f -----g his brother's wife. My husband still said nothing.
When I asked him about this, all he said was, well he is my brother. My husband is still drinking and driving. He has lied to me since the day we were married, off and on, about one thing or another. I am also pretty sure he has had many affairs. I don't know what to do. I am at wit's end. I don't know if I can't go on being in this marriage. He acts like everything is my fault. He does not like what I cook, none of my friends, none of the jobs I have had... puts me down in front of others all the time. He has told me that I have never contributed to this marriage, although I raised 3 kids, and at the time he said this, I was working 3 part time jobs, taking and running 3 kids around, taking care of my mother without any help, mowing the yard, taking care of a ranch by myself, etc... several times during our marriage, he has said that he had thought of dating my best friend, so he could get off her what he could.
I feel like throwing in the towel... I need to know that I am not crazy. Ty...
His family has also added lots of problems to our marriage. His mother cursed me out the day he and I got married, simply because I forgot to stop and hug her on the way out of church. My husband said nothing to her. From that point on, she has talked about me behind my back, given Christmas gifts that the kids made for her back to me, never approved of anything I have done, lied behind my back, etc. Her daughter has done the same thing over the years. My husband's brother, stood in my kitchen and told his dad that he was out at our place, f -----g his brother's wife. My husband still said nothing.
When I asked him about this, all he said was, well he is my brother. My husband is still drinking and driving. He has lied to me since the day we were married, off and on, about one thing or another. I am also pretty sure he has had many affairs. I don't know what to do. I am at wit's end. I don't know if I can't go on being in this marriage. He acts like everything is my fault. He does not like what I cook, none of my friends, none of the jobs I have had... puts me down in front of others all the time. He has told me that I have never contributed to this marriage, although I raised 3 kids, and at the time he said this, I was working 3 part time jobs, taking and running 3 kids around, taking care of my mother without any help, mowing the yard, taking care of a ranch by myself, etc... several times during our marriage, he has said that he had thought of dating my best friend, so he could get off her what he could.
I feel like throwing in the towel... I need to know that I am not crazy. Ty...