When I was young, my mother used to ask an older cousin to take care of me every time she needed to do errands. I remember how my cousin played with me by asking me to act as his wife. He would run his tongue on my intimate part and even rubbed his penis on me. Way back then, it was all play time for me with pleasure. As far as I know I never bled every time we were doing it though I am not sure if he was able to insert his penis on me. As far as I remember, he had the habit of licking my sensitive part and rubbing his genitals on me. If I did not bleed at all, I want to know if my hymen is still intact especially now that I am getting married soon.

If he never entered you, then you are intact.

Just going to add to what tickle said... you would likely still be intact from the situation that you experienced when young (so sorry to hear that you had to be a part of it), however, it is quite possible that you are not still intact just from various physical activities. While I know it remains an important indication of virginity in some cultures, not having an intact hymen, and/or not having bleeding after first having intercourse do not automatically mean a woman is not a virgin.

Ultimately, trust in his partner should be all the confirmation a man needs that she is still a virgin. I wish you a joyous and happy marriage!