ThatWriterChick
Dec 22, 2014, 03:27 PM
This is a long story, but I'll try to make it as condensed as possible.
My daughter is now 17 today. When she was 12 she had been a 4.0 student, had $13,000 in college grants, and even a signed plaque from the President for her leadership activities. She befriended a troublemaker, and got into drugs, sex with men, stealing, etc, and her grades dropped to .7.
She ran away countless times to be with men, and every time the cops would not bring her home, even when we were at said mans house and she was in the doorway!
She ran away jan of 2013, and I haven't seen or spoke to her since. She was placed on the NCIS database for missing and endangered children.
In August I received a summons from several states away. She had been in foster care for a year! And I was never notified! That state is now suing me for back and future child support!
What is my recourse? They will not allow her to come home, to me it feels like they just want money.
I'm so confused and frustrated...
Also, she had been doing the same to each foster home that she was doing in my care, stealing from work, sneaking men in, not doing chores-then defamating the characters of each home in order to be moved- she feels the world owes her and she does not have to follow rules or contribute.
Her team of counselors, police, and other support network has diagnosed her as a compulsive liar.
My daughter is now 17 today. When she was 12 she had been a 4.0 student, had $13,000 in college grants, and even a signed plaque from the President for her leadership activities. She befriended a troublemaker, and got into drugs, sex with men, stealing, etc, and her grades dropped to .7.
She ran away countless times to be with men, and every time the cops would not bring her home, even when we were at said mans house and she was in the doorway!
She ran away jan of 2013, and I haven't seen or spoke to her since. She was placed on the NCIS database for missing and endangered children.
In August I received a summons from several states away. She had been in foster care for a year! And I was never notified! That state is now suing me for back and future child support!
What is my recourse? They will not allow her to come home, to me it feels like they just want money.
I'm so confused and frustrated...
Also, she had been doing the same to each foster home that she was doing in my care, stealing from work, sneaking men in, not doing chores-then defamating the characters of each home in order to be moved- she feels the world owes her and she does not have to follow rules or contribute.
Her team of counselors, police, and other support network has diagnosed her as a compulsive liar.