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temmy008
Dec 4, 2014, 07:38 AM
After 10 months into our relationship, my girlfriend is just telling that she had a baby before she met me. I'm confused.

Should I keep dating her?

talaniman
Dec 4, 2014, 08:35 AM
Why did she wait so long, and where is the baby? You have asked her all these questions when she told you right? If NOT, why NOT?

Fr_Chuck
Dec 4, 2014, 08:48 AM
I will agree, where is the baby? After 10 months, I would have assumed you would have know.

But perhaps, this is a secret, (baby adopted or living with family)

In and of itself, she may have felt her past, if it does not effect currrent relationship did not need to be discussed

J_9
Dec 4, 2014, 08:55 AM
From a female...

She wanted to get to know you first. She didn't want men coming and going out of her baby's life. As a woman I see this as a very responsible action on her part.

You really didn't give us enough information to go on.