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Aug 8, 2014, 08:44 AM
I'm 32 now and living in Pakistan. Do you think I can still get married. I want to get to know him first to marry him or even get engaged. How is it possible here where I live in. It's a conservative cultural country. Can anybody help.

joypulv
Aug 8, 2014, 09:03 AM
I think that I and many people I know met the significant people in their lives at work.
You are 32, and living with your parents, something that is unusual even in your part of the world, isn't it? What do you do with your time? What is your educational background? Have you ever had a job, or a business?

If your age is a hindrance where you are, talk to your family about a matchmaker. I'm sure there are older widowers out there, or men who were workaholics for their younger years, or who had to take care of their parents, etc.

talaniman
Aug 8, 2014, 10:44 AM
What do adults of your culture do for fun? What do you do for work? I read of the cousin/sister thing and know it hurt you and you are still probably looking for a guy and a way to get out of your families home. If I am not mistaken, your sister has to marry first and you have no social life, friends, or outside activities. So tell me how your older sister can go abroad and you cannot?

My suggestion is a job, or career. That's the easiest way to meet and get to know people in a very conservative society.