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mima omaima
Aug 7, 2014, 04:49 AM
Me and my sisters are always fighting and I feel that my mom always take their side and never mine. I try to be nice to them but that doesn't work. Now I can't find peace when I come back home. I have to do everything even if it's their turn to do it. We even fight over the TV and my mom says that I'm the bad one and starts yelling at me.

Jake2008
Aug 7, 2014, 05:14 AM
It would be helpful to know how old you are, and how old your siblings are.

And can you give any examples of how things turn into fights.

smoothy
Aug 7, 2014, 06:06 AM
You could have to do it the way we did it in my house growing up.

We watched what my parents wanted to watch... and if we didn't like that we could sit in our rooms with no radio, TV or anything else.

And you did what you were told to do, when you were told to do it.

When you are old enough and have your own place, pay your own bills, then you get to tell YOUR kids what to do. Until then you do what YOU are told to do.

I feel I had good parents....they would have moved heaven and earth if we needed it....but they did demand respect and accountability from us in exchange, which were a great help when we entered the real world.

I doubt they ( your sisters) always get their way, or always get to do what they want... it only seems like it to you.

talaniman
Aug 7, 2014, 07:13 AM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/time-change-house-798651.html

Obviously you have to be the more mature one as you prepare for your own future. I think your parents are trying to prepare you for that. So its you and how you deal with your situation, NOT your sisters. You sound like the oldest, but how old are they? How many sisters are we talking about?

Alty
Aug 7, 2014, 01:09 PM
How old are you? How old are your sisters?