johnaus1993
Jul 27, 2014, 07:03 PM
My girlfriend and I were together for 2 years until she recently ended the relationship.
for the month before we broke up ( may 2014 ) we would hang out and talk everyday as usual but I was very stressed out with work, uni and personal issues. Her birthday was at the end of May and we had dinner at her house and I got her a birthday gift I knew she would like. I didn't give her a card though which she wasn't happy about but was planning on giving her a letter a few days later as a surprise. The night ended normal and due to work the next day I said I would take her out over the weekend. Evidently I had to go to a christening on the Saturday so was not able to see her which I know I let her down. We messaged on Sunday but the messages were very short and its like we both weren't interested in talking. Randomly on the Monday we stopped talking and both being stubborn we didn't speak for two weeks. I then messaged her saying I missed her and she replied saying its best if we aren't together.
I aske her to breakup with me face to face that night and I gave her the letter I wrote her but she didn't want it but as I left her car I left it in there so I don't know if she read it. She was yelling at me and didn't really seem to care at all. Two weeks later I asked her if we could hang out one last time and I took her to a place she always wanted to go and its like we were strangers but there was moments that seemed special. When I dropped her home we spoke in the car for a few hours and I told her I really loved her and don't want any others girls but her. She said that was unfair on me and that I should get with other girls and I told her I didn't want that at all.
she messaged me the next day saying she had heaps of fun and hoped our paths crossed again. Two weeks later I bombarded her with messages and calls trying to get her back and we agreed to meet so I could give her back a expensive gift she got me because I liked the idea behind the gift more. She said she would meet me and then said her uncle was in hospital and I was being selfish so I told her I hope everything is okay and that if there's anything I could do to let me know and to not worry about meeting up until she is free. She then changed her number the next day.
its been 1 month since we last saw each other and 3 weeks since she changed her number and I've been seeing photos of her out with guys on Facebook. One of the guys is the guy I suspected she was talking to a month before we broke up. I know I can't contact her anymore ( she changed her number ) but also vis email because ill just look even stupider. Reason she said she broke up with me is because feelings change but 2 weeks before that she was sending me links to holidays and telling me she loved me.
Im just really confused and I know I've made it worse by texting and calling her heaps but I can't now which is a good thing because I couldn't control myself.
I really love this girl and she knows that and this has been the worst time of my life and would do anything to get her back.
just want to know what people think is happening and if she does care or get sad at all about this because it doesn't seem like she does and if not speaking is the best thing to do to give her space in hope she may realise I wasn't a terrible guy?
for the month before we broke up ( may 2014 ) we would hang out and talk everyday as usual but I was very stressed out with work, uni and personal issues. Her birthday was at the end of May and we had dinner at her house and I got her a birthday gift I knew she would like. I didn't give her a card though which she wasn't happy about but was planning on giving her a letter a few days later as a surprise. The night ended normal and due to work the next day I said I would take her out over the weekend. Evidently I had to go to a christening on the Saturday so was not able to see her which I know I let her down. We messaged on Sunday but the messages were very short and its like we both weren't interested in talking. Randomly on the Monday we stopped talking and both being stubborn we didn't speak for two weeks. I then messaged her saying I missed her and she replied saying its best if we aren't together.
I aske her to breakup with me face to face that night and I gave her the letter I wrote her but she didn't want it but as I left her car I left it in there so I don't know if she read it. She was yelling at me and didn't really seem to care at all. Two weeks later I asked her if we could hang out one last time and I took her to a place she always wanted to go and its like we were strangers but there was moments that seemed special. When I dropped her home we spoke in the car for a few hours and I told her I really loved her and don't want any others girls but her. She said that was unfair on me and that I should get with other girls and I told her I didn't want that at all.
she messaged me the next day saying she had heaps of fun and hoped our paths crossed again. Two weeks later I bombarded her with messages and calls trying to get her back and we agreed to meet so I could give her back a expensive gift she got me because I liked the idea behind the gift more. She said she would meet me and then said her uncle was in hospital and I was being selfish so I told her I hope everything is okay and that if there's anything I could do to let me know and to not worry about meeting up until she is free. She then changed her number the next day.
its been 1 month since we last saw each other and 3 weeks since she changed her number and I've been seeing photos of her out with guys on Facebook. One of the guys is the guy I suspected she was talking to a month before we broke up. I know I can't contact her anymore ( she changed her number ) but also vis email because ill just look even stupider. Reason she said she broke up with me is because feelings change but 2 weeks before that she was sending me links to holidays and telling me she loved me.
Im just really confused and I know I've made it worse by texting and calling her heaps but I can't now which is a good thing because I couldn't control myself.
I really love this girl and she knows that and this has been the worst time of my life and would do anything to get her back.
just want to know what people think is happening and if she does care or get sad at all about this because it doesn't seem like she does and if not speaking is the best thing to do to give her space in hope she may realise I wasn't a terrible guy?