jasedition
Jun 10, 2014, 02:55 PM
So my wife and I split 3 years ago. Never took the time to get divorced. She got with a guy that introduced her into meth. She has 2 kids by him now as well. She was pregnant and using at same time. She and him were caught by CPS by failing hair drug tests. The court give me primary care of my son. Her visitation is only every other Saturday supervised by me. She lost her other 2 as well to his parents.
When CPS called me to tell me what happened and asked if I wanted my son I of course said yes. But CPS did not like that I was currently staying with my girlfriend and gave me 24hrs to find my own apartment in my name. Hectic that was but I achieved it! After that they had no problems with him being with me.
She and him are now clean and been thro there rehab and parenting classes. She's goten her 2 daughters back from his parents and is now planning to fight me for our son.
I have never had a record and been clean my whole life. But because I date a woman who is a felon and currently on parole she thinks she has a case to fight and take my son away since my son is with her while I work.
I have no open cps case and everyone on myside. My family my friends yes even her family and his family are on my side! I have a lot of support.
I am currently going to get a lawyer and fight back. My son is 4 now and had never been treated for shots, check ups, or teeth, or vision and hearing, until I was given custody. I made it happen not her. He is healthy now and well taken care of. I have several sitters for him and he goes to pre school. I work a lot so my girlfriend watches him and takes care of him unless she works. Then he goes to a sitter which is close family of my gfs. My son has many friends his age thanks to her family. My point is, I have a system that works. He his happy and healthy and never wants to go see his mom. He crys when I have to take him for visitation.
In my situation can she legally take my son away from me? I can easily say my girlfriend and I broke up. Or say she does not live with me and my son goes to school then to a sitters till I'm home. Regardless I'm not sure I understand how a judge wuld go back on his decision given me custody just to give it bk to her after she's done her clasess and is clean.
Im not the kind of guy to keep my son from his mother either. I want joint custody but remain primary care giver. I do not require child support either. She on the other hand wishes to milk me for every penny.
We were living 3hours in distance apart. But so she could see him more often after the case was over I moved within an hour distance. So she may see him more than just other saturdays. But now its not enuff she wants to fight over him even though Im willing to let her see him anytime. Its just a ownership and money issue to her in my opinion. She is a good mom at times. But isn't the brightest. I do currently know she cheats on her boyfriend all the time with a buddy of mine. Ive seen texts and he's let me listen in on phone calls. She's not a good person at heart.
It makes me want to blk male her by telling her ill spill the beans to her boyfriend about her cheating if she fights me in court. She will lose 2 daughters instead of one son that way. It wuld make her think. But I want legal advice and deal with things the right way.
Any advice is appreciated. What should I do
When CPS called me to tell me what happened and asked if I wanted my son I of course said yes. But CPS did not like that I was currently staying with my girlfriend and gave me 24hrs to find my own apartment in my name. Hectic that was but I achieved it! After that they had no problems with him being with me.
She and him are now clean and been thro there rehab and parenting classes. She's goten her 2 daughters back from his parents and is now planning to fight me for our son.
I have never had a record and been clean my whole life. But because I date a woman who is a felon and currently on parole she thinks she has a case to fight and take my son away since my son is with her while I work.
I have no open cps case and everyone on myside. My family my friends yes even her family and his family are on my side! I have a lot of support.
I am currently going to get a lawyer and fight back. My son is 4 now and had never been treated for shots, check ups, or teeth, or vision and hearing, until I was given custody. I made it happen not her. He is healthy now and well taken care of. I have several sitters for him and he goes to pre school. I work a lot so my girlfriend watches him and takes care of him unless she works. Then he goes to a sitter which is close family of my gfs. My son has many friends his age thanks to her family. My point is, I have a system that works. He his happy and healthy and never wants to go see his mom. He crys when I have to take him for visitation.
In my situation can she legally take my son away from me? I can easily say my girlfriend and I broke up. Or say she does not live with me and my son goes to school then to a sitters till I'm home. Regardless I'm not sure I understand how a judge wuld go back on his decision given me custody just to give it bk to her after she's done her clasess and is clean.
Im not the kind of guy to keep my son from his mother either. I want joint custody but remain primary care giver. I do not require child support either. She on the other hand wishes to milk me for every penny.
We were living 3hours in distance apart. But so she could see him more often after the case was over I moved within an hour distance. So she may see him more than just other saturdays. But now its not enuff she wants to fight over him even though Im willing to let her see him anytime. Its just a ownership and money issue to her in my opinion. She is a good mom at times. But isn't the brightest. I do currently know she cheats on her boyfriend all the time with a buddy of mine. Ive seen texts and he's let me listen in on phone calls. She's not a good person at heart.
It makes me want to blk male her by telling her ill spill the beans to her boyfriend about her cheating if she fights me in court. She will lose 2 daughters instead of one son that way. It wuld make her think. But I want legal advice and deal with things the right way.
Any advice is appreciated. What should I do