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Aves08
Apr 26, 2014, 08:21 PM
Ok. I know this sounds pretty cliché, but I think I'm in love with my best friend. His name is Tyler. He has blond hair, the cutest smile EVER, and a hilarious personality. I love that when he smiles he gets little crinkles by his eyes. Anyway, he is one of my best friends. We used to be friends, like when we were younger we would both spend the night at our mutual friends house. He is so sweet, on my birthday he pulled away from the group and we went for a walk. He saw this really pretty flower and picked it and gave it to me. Also when everybody else, including our mutual friend, Liv, he stayed. When summer came, he came to my house every single day! I have a pool in my yard so we swam most of the time, but other times we played on the wii. We are friends in and out of school and we do practically everything together.

Here's the thing. He has a girlfriend. Who is also a good friend of mine. Liv knows I like Tyler and she said one time when they were hanging out that he asked her to take him to my house, and they drove right by his gf's house.

He shows signs of liking me; holding my hand, light teasing, 'accidentally' brushing against me, playing with my hair, and a couple times he has put his arm on the back of my chair and 'subtly' slid it down to my shoulders.

I definitely like Tyler, but I don't want to make things weird between Liv, Tyler and me. Also, his girlfriend is a friend of mine. Isn't that against the girl code or something? I don to ow what to do.

Does he like me? I mean we are best friends so I know coming to my house is expected,I just, I don't know.

What should I do?

Anisha N
Apr 26, 2014, 11:18 PM
Clearly you are not a good friend. Not a loyal friend to yourself, the guy and the girl.

Either come clean. Tell him how you feel.

OR

Leave them alone!

Homegirl 50
Apr 27, 2014, 07:36 AM
If you know this guy has a girl friend and his girl friend is your best friend, you should just chill! If you are having a conflict of feelings, stop hanging out with him so much.
If he liked you, you would be his girl friend. I think he likes you as a friend and is comfortable with you.
How old are you?

Aves08
Apr 27, 2014, 05:37 PM
I know. That's why I don't want to do anything. But like I said he is my best friend and I don't want to hurt any of my friends, but I can't help what I feel. And also, Tyler and his girl friend have been fighting a lot so, I don't feel as bad. But still I doubt I'll do anything because she is my friend and he is mybest friend.

It's not like I force myself on him. He comes to my house to hang out. I can't just slam the door in his face and say sorry I can't hang out anymore because I like you. He's my best friend! What would he think if I started ignoring him?

Homegirl 50
Apr 27, 2014, 07:19 PM
You can not be so available, or you can tell him the truth.
How old are you guys?