Ive recently come out of a long term relationship, and even though I know I'm not ready to jump into another relationship yet, I still want to meet some ladies and have some fun...

The problem is I haven't been single for ages and I don't know how or where to meet women!!

The club scene is a dead horse, it requires way too much effort and looks that I don't have!!

What are some waysand where is a good place to meet new people, not necessarily to 'be' with, but just to get into a new crowd...

You might want to get involved in some activities like organizations that are of an interest to you. For me, that would be gardening, music, art, and archeology. The meetings usually happen at night, once a week or once a month.

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