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towheedaijaz
Feb 12, 2014, 03:40 AM
Sir, I was in a relationship with a girl. I married with the same girl before 2 years. Now I am afraid of the past mistakes. I heard that we are doing wrong every night. If any suggestion.

Fr_Chuck
Feb 12, 2014, 08:03 AM
Doing wrong ? Who is saying so ? People hear all sorts of untrue things.

What type of wrong. You said married ? Are you still married ?

You did not describe anything wrong at this point.

towheedaijaz
Feb 12, 2014, 09:04 AM
Sir I did sexual intercourse before marriage and I'm still married with the same girl. Now I have heard that after marriage doing sex with his own family is considered still doing wrong.sir any remedy.

Fr_Chuck
Feb 12, 2014, 09:25 AM
This must be due to some "religious" believe, but no, in every religion I am aware of, once you marry, it is no longer a issue. While they sex before marriage was, any future sex is not an issue.

I would say who ever is saying this, is not properly informed.

talaniman
Feb 12, 2014, 09:33 AM
Your best remedy I feel is deal with your wife and be happy and don't let any more doubts come between you and the life you build with her. Not everything you hear is a basis for truth. You are married and between you both you are one and can do as you please in your own home.


Where have you heard this from and are you somehow related to your now wife?