View Full Version : SOMEBODY ANYBODY please help AM I PREGNANT?? NOT trying to conceive
Lexjackson
Feb 1, 2014, 03:46 PM
Hi OK once I again I am not trying to conceive my boyfriend and I were just separated for a few months and we really missed each other, anyway I ovulated on the 9th-14th of January (didnt know until I calculated after the fact) and my boyfriend and I had sex on the 7,8,10,12, and 14th of January shortly after I started feeling... off and different almost like this constant nervous feeling but more intense and for no reason at all this thought in the back of my mind just kept telling me I was pregnant, I also had some on & off cramping but it only lasted a day or 2 and I only spotted once. Anyway 2 weeks later my period came the day it was suppose to the only difference is that day 1 was pretty much nothing but light red (almost pinkish) brownish spotting day 2 it was a bit heavier but never had dark red blood no clots and I pretty much wore that one pad all day because it took forever just to fill day 3 was back to the spotting but this time it started pink then turned brown by that afternoon by day 4 was nothing but clear discharge day 5 when I wiped there was an excessive amount of near white mucus like discharge I have no symptoms other then head aches and strange stomach pains I also have increased acne dry skin also I have no infections and my period has never done this before what do you guys think??
Lexjackson
Feb 1, 2014, 03:47 PM
Hi OK once I again I am not trying to conceive my boyfriend and I were just separated for a few months and we really missed each other, anyway I ovulated on the 9th-14th of January (didnt know until I calculated after the fact) and my boyfriend and I had sex on the 7,8,10,12, and 14th of January shortly after I started feeling... off and different almost like this constant nervous feeling but more intense and for no reason at all this thought in the back of my mind just kept telling me I was pregnant, I also had some on & off cramping but it only lasted a day or 2 and I only spotted once. Anyway 2 weeks later my period came the day it was suppose to the only difference is that day 1 was pretty much nothing but light red (almost pinkish) brownish spotting day 2 it was a bit heavier but never had dark red blood no clots and I pretty much wore that one pad all day because it took forever just to fill day 3 was back to the spotting but this time it started pink then turned brown by that afternoon by day 4 was nothing but clear discharge day 5 when I wiped there was an excessive amount of near white mucus like discharge I have no symptoms other then head aches and strange stomach pains I also have increased acne dry skin also I have no infections and my period has never done this before what do you guys think?? also my back is KILLING me
Wondergirl
Feb 1, 2014, 03:55 PM
Are you using protection? If so, what forms?
Lexjackson
Feb 1, 2014, 04:06 PM
No we haven't used any protection at the moment I was hot and in love.. im also a teen so protection was honestly the last thing on my mind :( I was on birth control but stopped using it about 3 or 4 months ago I was only prescribed to use for 3 months it was suppose to help an ovarian cyst I had but even once I stopped using the BC my period has never done this before I'm nervious and confused
ScottGem
Feb 1, 2014, 04:25 PM
I was hot and in love.. im also a teen so protection was honestly the last thing on my mind
Being a teen means that protection should be the FIRST thing on your mind. Sexual intercourse = pregnancy, even if you are using protection no form of protection is 100%.
Are you pregnant? There is no way for us to tell at this point. But the possibility exists since you had sexual relations. As for calculating ovulation, you can't calculate it after the fact. The best way to track ovulation is to monitor your temperature. If you weren't doing that you are just guessing.
If you had sex during January, it is too soon for any symptoms of pregnancy to manifest themselves. So whatever you are feeling it is too soon to be indicative of pregnancy. You said you got what you thought was a period after your week of sex, but it wasn't a normal period? The first sign of pregnancy is a missed period. If you feel this wasn't your real period, then you need to wait about 2 weeks after your due date and then you can take a HPT.
Hopefully, this scare will make you wake up. Find out more about how the reproductive cycle works and how one does and does not get pregnant. But the only sure way to prevent pregnancy his to keep a guy's penis out of your vagina.
Lexjackson
Feb 1, 2014, 04:39 PM
Thank you so much for your answers and yes this definitely was a wake up call for me
ma0641
Feb 1, 2014, 06:33 PM
I think you are extremely lucky if you are not pregnant. WAKE UP! next time you may be pregnant.
Fr_Chuck
Feb 2, 2014, 01:42 AM
Yes, you would not be having any signs of pregnancy like you are having, it does not mean you are not pregnant, just means the signs are something else.
Also no you really have no idea when you ovulated, since you would have used a online or phone app of some sort. They are not really correct for everyone, and are only estimates, so unless you were actually tracking ovulation ( and you were not) you really do not know.
Pregnancy testing can not start till you are at least 2 weeks late.
afrahsohail
Feb 5, 2014, 10:06 AM
Backache can be a sign dear that you are pregnant. I have that too and stair climbing makes me tachypenic
Kindly do the pregnancy test
smoothy
Feb 5, 2014, 10:12 AM
A backache can be a sign of MANY things... including kidney problems to being overweight and out of shape and many , many other things... (and its not a gender specific complaint either).
Lexjackson
Feb 8, 2014, 02:53 AM
(Update) I'm now felling menstrual like cramps and waves of stomach pains, also bad leg cramps today I had dizziness and nausa almost as if I was going to pass out any moment
Lexjackson
Feb 8, 2014, 02:54 AM
I was thinking that maybe this could be another ovarian cyst but I remember that pain was so much worst