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lixxielittle
Jan 2, 2014, 05:02 AM
I'm 15 and have been with the same guy for 2 years
... I'm a few weeks pregnant. We both have jobs, he is 16. I want to have this baby and keep it


My mom is Going to freak... Some advice? :/ no abortion OK. Or adoption. I really don't want to

J_9
Jan 2, 2014, 05:06 AM
What kind of advice would you like? Would you like us to help you tell your parents?

Fr_Chuck
Jan 2, 2014, 05:33 AM
You confirm pregnancy.

Then you and boy together, go tell your mother.
She can not force you to have an abortion.

Then you go from there. Start making plans to finish school, and start caring for baby.

J_9
Jan 2, 2014, 05:43 AM
Do you and your boyfriend have jobs that can afford the upkeep of baby? In my hospital just delivering a baby costs over four thousand dollars. Do you have insurance?

Are you aware of the dangers of being pregnant at your age?

You are going to have to talk with your parents because, most likely, they are the ones who will be raising this baby.

ScottGem
Jan 2, 2014, 06:11 AM
As J_9 asks what do you want help with? How do you know you are pregnant?

1) At your age, there are distinct health risks to you and the child.
2) no matter what jobs you have they are unlikely to be enough to cover the costs of raising a child.
3) depending on local laws you are underage so he could face a statutory rape charge.

You need to grow up. You have made some immature decisions and now need to start maturing really fast.