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darren1234
Dec 23, 2013, 02:42 AM
I am a Hindu boy, I loved a Christian girl. We both are in love nearly 3 years and suddenly her parents noticed us. They warned her, but we never stopped talking each other. Finally they noticed once again, and they changed her, and now she has been baptized and became a believer. She not even wants to talk with me, but I can't forget her.

So I thought of converting my religion and I also wants to be baptized and today at 5:30 pm I am going to be baptized in the name of the Lord.

What I want to ask is this the right way to get her. If I do like this can I get her. The main thing is her father is a pastor.

joypulv
Dec 23, 2013, 03:37 AM
I don't think it is a good move to convert to her religion before finding out if that would change her mind about you.
No one can predict what she or her father would say about you converting. I would guess that they would have told you that it would be acceptable by now. The fact that she won't have any contact with you at all is not a good sign. I hope you will postpone the conversion.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 23, 2013, 07:46 AM
No, it is a very bad thing.

Unless you really know and believe the faith, you do not change, just to marry a girl. You talk to the girl and see, talk to her parents and see. What about your parents, have you talked to them about this.

Why did you not talk to her parents when they first noticed. What did you think would happen, they would magicly agree ?

Homegirl 50
Dec 23, 2013, 04:25 PM
You don't change what you believe just to "get the girl" It is your faith you are turning your back on. What if things don't work out between you and this girl, do you convert back? This is the wrong thing to do.

darren1234
Dec 23, 2013, 08:56 PM
Sorry friends in the name of the lord I have already converted not for the sake of girl but it’s god’s decision.
The main thing to write this is from past 7 years I have been in a friendship with a Christian girl but unknowingly from past 5 years we loved one each other and from past 3 years we had been broke up because of our caste variation. Now she is totally changed and became a complete believer, I also convinced with her and tried to change completely to forget her but I recognized that it is impossible to forget her and only one thing what I can do is to become a complete believer. I tried this 2 years back but I got a message from her that (change for the god sake but not for the girl sake) I obeyed her words and waited for God’s message and finally I got it today. In the name of Jesus I am getting baptized “God’s people should be baptized because God commanded it, not because some church or some people require it.” I want to change totally myself and I want to reborn as a Christian and become a believer and serve for the God till my death. I have obeyed all condition what a baptized should do, but only one thing is I can’t forget that girl.

Today I want to ask you is this correct keeping the girl in me and taking baptized is the correct way if not what I should do? I asked the same to the lord and he replied me and asked me the question that (you have believe in me that I can make you both one) then I replied yes, then he gave me a message that ( if you believe me I can do this for you and you just walk in my way and I will show you the path to reach them ) obeying his order I am getting baptized today please pray for my sake and for my family sake and also pray for the path the way what god had showed me

talaniman
Dec 23, 2013, 10:32 PM
I don't know if you talked to god or not, but if you don't get the girl, honor your commitment, and I hope you have a good life.

joypulv
Dec 24, 2013, 05:09 AM
You seem to have forgotten this: What I want to ask is this the right way to get her. If I do like this can I get her.

You are driving yourself crazy thinking that a religious conversion is going to either get the girl or help you forget her.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 24, 2013, 08:21 PM
You can not force her to accept you, nor her parents, the parents approval needed to be gotten before the dating was serious, you know the customs and tradition. Dating for years, is a waste of time, if parents will not agree.

Your pastor can go talk to the parents of this girl, and explain you are truly converted and baptized.. if they will not accept, you will just have to move on