So I've been going out with this girl for 10 months now and about two weeks ago she told me that she likes this other guy. She said that her heart is with me but she has this feeling for another guy. The thing is... I live in a completely different country and have been for only 3/4 months. After hearing what she said I got upset and my heart sunk. She goes out with him most nights of the week in his car and having meals at restaurants. I don't have a car and the thing is she's 5 years younger then him. She's 16 and he's 21 I'm also 16. I cry myself to sleep almost every night feeling like crap. I just don't know what to do anymore can anyone help?

I don't know why there is distance between you but obviously the rules of good behavior have never been defined. Or one of you has a deep misunderstanding of what kind of relationship you have. Its obviously not working a time to face some real facts. And make some hard decisions about what the future holds for you both.

You both are just 16, and maybe it was unrealistic to expect a LDR to even be practical at such a young age. At 16, its unlikely this relationship would last very long despite being there.