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aparna verma
Dec 19, 2013, 08:31 AM
I'm an introvert girl. I don’t talk to anyone much. One of my classmates continuously teases me and do not tease any other girl of class like that, even when I do not respond to him. Even I do not talk to any guy, none of guys talks to me, (as I'm introvert and I'm boring for them).

Whenever I saw him I caught him looking at me, but he just doesn’t talk to me. When I move in a group going for sport activity etc. I find him looking a me. He calls me with the pet name he created for me and calls me with same whenever he sees me in the crowd. When he saw me in parties, he called me with that name and he was like quite shocked to find me in the parties because I was not expected to attend such parties.

Earlier he fought with me a lot and then he messaged me when we were fighting late hours. For almost half of year he sat behind me and I fought a lot with him), Sometimes when we both are in a group of friends, he hits his notebook on my head (just as people do while playing, kidding or may be teasing, I don’t know but he does this only with me).

Once we were going in an automible he was sitting exactly in front of me. At first he talked casually (2minutes). Then we both were quiet. The driver asked him to sit beside me to have a clear view in he rear view mirror, but he refused and asked a lady sitting beside him to sit beside me. All through the way he bowed his head and was sitting in front of me. Once or twice he sat with me and talked to me .

When I had my lunch. Both of us do not talk to each other. Now we only look at each other a few minutes and go. Neither he says anything nor I. What should I do now? Please help!

Lynnn90
Dec 20, 2013, 11:47 AM
Catch his attention go out of your comfort zone. It sounds like he may have a crush. Don't worry too much about it guys come & go. Be yourself but just be a better version of you. When I want to catch a guys attention I dress a little cooler or sexier, put a little more time on my hair or make up, & etc. Try smiling at him but if he don't come around screw him . Don't force anything. What meant to be will happen. Oh and open up & have fun doing things that interest you!

talaniman
Dec 20, 2013, 12:03 PM
How old are you and what do you want to happen next?

aparna verma
Dec 21, 2013, 04:24 AM
I am unable to concentrate on y studies but i don't want to loose him also
Our school is going on a trip to adventurous place in coming week , and he asked me whether i m going?(he asked only me amongst girls), and told me he is not going... but i want to spend tym with him... how should i convince him... this is d last school trip :(

talaniman
Dec 21, 2013, 07:29 AM
Did he say why he isn't going on this trip, or have you expressed you wanted him to go to spend time and have fun together?

aparna verma
Dec 22, 2013, 01:53 AM
When everyone was excited and paying for the trip,he asked me first, whether I was going or not...
And then he only told me he was not going... (I didn't ask the reason,y he was not going)

talaniman
Dec 22, 2013, 06:31 AM
He may have not had the money to go and that's embarrassing... and disappointing... for him. No one would admit not having the money to go on a class trip. But if you never asked then you will never know, and maybe you should understand while you are disappointed too.